where do i start, well i joined the church in 2001 and never really new anything i was just warming up the seats i was an active member but i was not true in my heart. To make a long story short i started dating and i knew that this was wrong but i did it anyway and we got close and it's like when u don't intend on things getting serious it does.let me tell u something satan is so good til he gets u believing that ok this person is going to respect my religion and beliefs and he did , in the beginning. after almost a Year in the relationship i started noticing things that just was not acceptable and by that time i had already built up a fear in me of him and it wasn't physical abuse it was verbal , and many nights i would find myself crying out to God just wanting him to do something for me quick but i realized that God is always there waiting to help us but we have to do our part ,anyways let me tell u something serarae jesus is coming soooooooonnnn and satan is going to try his hardest to get all of God children if we let him and by us placing ourselves with people who r not even thinking of that way hay it's alot of trouble take it from me bin there done that didn't say everything but u got the picture and he is not a bad person u no but see they don't no the harm they do because for one they don't no what we no so they don't understand . And guess what he is CATHOLIC so u no what i went through so all in all i say it's a no no .
My daughter married a guy who is not necessarily Christian but he is also
not gung ho on it either. We had him at the house when we were members of the
SDA church and after we left the church and began home church he would attend
services. I found that he was going through the motions and that was about it.
Agains my better judgment they got married. They now have two kids and live
about 40 miles away. They still attend services either at the local SDA church
or when they can make it here they attend home church. But that is as far as it
goes. He has no desire to go any further and has basically said that he only
goes because of my daughter. Is this what God wants? Is that how children should
be raised? Just think about it before getting involved in a relationship with
someone who is not a true believer.
I am dating someone who is not S.D.A. but a christian. To be frank, I enjoy his company immensely and he totally understand that I have to keep the Sabbath. He is curious about the church and I do my best to answer his questions.
I grew up in the S.D.A. church but spent my teen years attending a Baptist church. I started to attend the S.D.A church again last year April and I am getting reacquited with the church and its doctrine.