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To my future Husband,
If you are reading this letter, it is because you may become my husband one day. Lately, my mind and heart have been filled with thoughts of you and the family that we will one day share.
I wonder where you are and what you are doing. Are you dating someone? Relationshipe have become so pressure-filled, haven't they? I mean, guys and girls alike treat dating as if they were married, expecting an instant commitment and sometimes sleeping together. I've heard that it is easier to share you body than your soul. How sad that we are taught even in grade school how to share our bodies with the opposite sex, but not our hearts or our souls. Seems totally backwards, doesnt it?
The temptations we face are real and I know how hard it can be to stay chaste. I've been tempted too, but then I think of you and how I want our wedding night to be perfect. Maybe that's why I wanted to write to you, to tell you that I am real. At some point in out future, our paths will cross, and we will eventually spend out lives together in marriage. It would seem a shame to go into out marriage with the baggage that past sexual relationships bring.
That quote I put at the top of the page--I mean it. (You were made to be loved...and sincerely I have loved you, and thought of you, my life long" --Elizabeth Barrett Browning) Think about it. You were made to be loved--unconditionally loved, and that's how I promise to love you. Where you have been before today...that's all in the past, and that's where it should stay. Maybe you had no idea that I was here. But now you know, and how you live your life from today forward matters to me a great deal. I know that the media, Planned Parenthood, MTV, your friends, and maybe others are telling you that sex before marriage is okay as long as it's "safe." Dont buy it. The truth is that the only safe sex is inside of marrriage. There are STDs, abortions, emotional scars, and teen becoming parents before they are ready. Sex before marriage leaves scars that are hard to heal, sometimes impossible.
To a lot of people it may seem totally crazy that I'm asking you to think of our future. They'd tell you to live for the moment. I'm all for living in the present, but thinking about the future can help you avoid decisions that may alter your future--our future. I want you to experience life, travel, figure out who you are, go to the moon if you want. Take advantage of this time in your life to learn everything that you can. That will only make our marriage stronger. Just don't jeopardize us.
Becoming a man can be difficult. Some guys try to earn their manhood by compromising their values. Sex before marriage won't make you a man. It will only serve to keep you a little boy who can't control himself. That's not that kind of guy that I want or deserve. I need a man who won't compromise his family but will put me first--even before he meets me; a man whose strength lies in his virtue, his character, and his ability to be an example at work, at play, and most importantly in our home. A real man knows how to love completely--with his mind, heart, body, and soul. This may sound like a lot to ask of you, but it will be worth it. I will love you completely--I can promise that!
You need to know that I am waiting for you. If there is one thing that I have learned from my dating experiences, it's that you are worth waiting for. My heart, soul, and body were made for you. We will complete each other in the most profoundly beautiful way imaginable.
From today forward, are you going to wait for me? Like I said, where you have been is in the past, but where you are going will affect out marriage. I need to know that you have learned self control. I need to know that you think I am worth waiting for. I need to know that you are a man who respects and cherishes women--all women. The girl you are dating right now, or are going to date soon, may be someone else's future wife, and I need to know that you understand and respect that.
Real love is not temporary feeling or emotion. Emotions and feelings change, sometimes daily. But true unconditional love is constant. I met a couple the other day who have been married for 50 years, have seven children, 23 grandchildren, and seven great grandchildren. They looked like high school sweethearts. I asked them how they did it, how they made it work when so many marriages are falling apart. You know what he said? He said, "She knows I'm not perfect and she still loves me. She's my best friend." How cool is that? That's what I want. I want us to be best friends. I want you to feel totally free to be you when you are with me.
Please read this often. Think of me often. I'm thinking of you. I can't wait to meet you. I cant wait to spend my life loving you. Thanks for waiting for me. I promise it will be worth the wait!
With Love, Your Future wife.
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I just want too say hey im waiting too lol
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This is really touch after i read this literatures .
I want to say to all who are still patiently waitting for your other part of your" body ".
should be pure as snow. be to wait, until God's time come to you.
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should be pure as snow. be to wait until God's time come to you.
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love is pure like snow. be joyful to wait until God's time come to u
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I believe love is something that god helps you too relieze watch out for
false phrophets and watch out for false love.Trust in god you will know
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Hi I was giving up looking for future wife coz nothing seems real to me... How and when can God giveshow me the real ADVENTIST girl that I will share love and cherish for God and the family God will want to establish im my life???? Give me a call if u are the one.... this may sound funny..but its for real.. God bless you all tom |
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Thank you for this letter. I sometimes pray for the wife God has in the future for me...or am I to remain single...I am divorced 10 yrs. now and have worked through a lot of personal growth issues...don't think I'm ready ...YET...but I want to be... Honey, where ever you are, may the Lord keep you in His Love and watchcare...'till He brings us together... |
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hi betty i am a Weir too? Sometimes i feel like giving up but i remember God is able to provide for my needs according to His riches in Glory. |
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Hello my name is daniel 26 and too am waiting to meet the one gir I will love for ever...and if you are a christian and are looking for some one that Loves the Lord like you do and you are lonley, Please e-mail me either on here or at I">[email protected]>I love family and I love children and thats the life I want....I love the simple things in life...a walk in the park....stop and pick a flower and enjoy Gods creation...thanks for listening to me...now all you have to do is write me...thanks..love daniel |
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