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To my Future wife,
I found myself thinking about you today. wondering where you are, what you're thinking and doing. It hurts a little not to be with you, but i can live for now, knowing that we'll spend the rest of our lives together. I'm writing this letter to help you understand what I've been thinking about and why. I probably don't know all the right things to say, but my feelings and words are from the heart.
Actually, I find myself thinking about you more and more. The very idea of you provides a much-needed break from the pressures of dating, relationships and life. In the midst of all--the thought of you calms and refreshes me--makes me smile, in spite of my situations and surroundings. I know it sounds crazy, but I picture you--your smile, the way you pull your hair behind your ear, your wonderful laugh, even when my jokes aren't funny. I can't help but wonder what our children will look like.
I've gone out with other girls, but something always seems to be missing. I go out and have fun, but the idea of you and our future together is always in my thoughts. It keeps me focused and on track, aware of who I am and what's important. And loving you, without even having met you, makes me want to be deserving of your love. So I wait for you--in mind, body and soul.
I dont usually talk or write like this, but my mind and heart are racing with anticipation. Because I love you, because I know you're out there. Because the very thought of you makes my pulse race, my palms sweat, my stomach flip like I'm on a rollar coaster. And what better way to show that I've always loved you then to save myself for you--completely. And I hope that you're doing the same. I know waiting isnt easy. We're taught to expect instant gratification. We're told we shouldn't have to wait--for anything. Too often we act on feelings or impulses, sacrificing the future by buying into the lie that sex equals love, leaving little room for commitment or marriage. But that's not love and that's not why I'm waiting for you.
I'm waiting for you because I love you unconditionally. And I need you to know that what matters to me is not where you've been or what you've done, but where you're going. Maybe you didn't know I existed. Or you thought that we'd found each other, only to realize later that what you discovered wasnt true love. Real love is different from infatuation or simple pleasure. It isn't abusive or selfish or purely physical. Real love involves mutual respect, affection, trust equality, and a shared spiritual. Real love doesn't revolve around sex! Real love grows into a relationship where sexual intimacy will only serve to express that love--marriage.
I talked with a friend the other day about chatity--modesty and purity in our thoughts, words, the way we dress and act--how it's a building block for a perfect love that cast our all fears--pregnancy, STD's, the emotional scars associated with broken relationships. So, in the search for perfect love, it only makes sense to practice chastity and wait until you're married to give yourself to the person you love. And ... our marriage will bring with it the promise of forever. We will give ourselfs to one another completely, become best friends--soul mates. So, even though we may be apart right now, by living chastely for each other in the present, we can build our future together.
Have you ever been in the middle of doing something when you stop to think, "This would be perfect if...?" Those words come to mind often--for example, on a Fall day, with leaves covering the ground and crisp, cool breezes blowing, and I think, "This would be perfect if...she were here." The thought that someday you will be here comforts me. And...I want that same thought to comfort you. Whether you realize it or not, I've been there in your thoughts, that shiver or the goosebumps you get every once in a while--in that long daydream or lingering glance. You don't have to wonder anymore, because I'm real, I love you and I'm waiting for you--in every way. And now that you know I'm here, I hope you'll do the same. Whenever you feel scared, unsure, or pressured to give a part of yourself away, read this letter. Think about us and how perfect it will be when we are together.
You may have been waiting and looking for me all the while. You may be starting today. Either way, we'll know when we've found each other; we'll be together for the rest of our lives and the wait will have been worthwhile.
All my love, Your Future husband
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man i am feeling your message man, i will be waiting for my beautiful wife too, if god choses. i hope i will be ready for her too when we meet through god'd grace and love. may all the adventist single guys and girls be delivered their match given from God who no one can take away. Amen |
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| | (1 recommendation so far) | Message 3 of 17 in Discussion |
| | From: Deb | Sent: 6/18/2004 1:49 PM |
turtles which of these compelling messages to a future spouse is your own heartfelt desire. you have both husband and wife message. Your confusing me
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wow you touched my heart talking that way to your future wife.....and you don't even met her yet.....mmmm the same i think of "him"....of my future husband, i'm sure that God will show us the right person because we trust him first than anything else.... my husband must be on his lattest 30"s or in his 40"s years old....lol he is tall,with blue or green eyes....just want him to know that we will be together soon.... |
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Babyally: Suppose God chooses you someone who is not exactly your prescription...short with brown eyes? Would you accept him? |
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Thats the most beautiful message I has been read in this website,, I believe sometimes we feel this way, and I hope you find the woman that God has separated for you already.. |
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If you're looking, your message is loud and clear. That goes to all of you "single as a Pringle" people out there. Ask and believe it to be true. I asked God to deliver me a good man, and He did. He answered my prayers. If you weren't meant to be a monk living a celibate life, then ask for a mate. Put the message out there. There's no reason why Christians should be lonely when we want to be loved and have mates. You're all in my prayers. I hope you all find the right matches you're looking for. Sushiluck :) |
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Hi tree of life7 of course if God shoose a short guy with brown eyes i would accept him,but He knows that i feel terrific attracted to tall guys with blue eyes lol....so i asked him to give me a man with the real beauty of heaven,i want to see through his eyes the beauty of his soul loving Jesus for ever.... |
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if all that is true email me I'm waiting for you. |
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All it is true. Let God choose your mate, who could do a better job than He. I meet my fiance' through the good grace of God. He had prayed for a good Christain women and I for a good christain man. When the time was right God gave us to each other. Don't go looking, allow God to do His work in you and get you ready and He will do the rest. When it happens all the feelings and emotions you feel will be there. Real love is when two become one in mind, body, and soul. When you breath you can feel him, when you open your eyes you see him and he is not even there, when the mere thought of him sends chills up and down your spine, the mention of his name bring a glow to your face for all to see, when holding his hands is more intimate than the act of sex itself, when the words "I LOVE YOU" are not just something you say to one another, but are what you feel for one another in your whole being. Real love is knowing that God is the center of our relationship and where God is, there is a relationship that will last til the end of time. Biblebutterfly7  |
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| | | From: augbara | Sent: 8/19/2005 5:53 PM |
That was beautiful, butterfly.
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> All it is true. Let God choose your mate, who could do a
>better job than He. I meet my fiance' through the good grace of God. He had
>prayed for a good Christain women and I for a good christain man. When the
>time was right God gave us to each other. Don't go looking, allow God to do
>His work in you and get you ready and He will do the rest. When it happens
>all the feelings and emotions you feel will be there. Real love is when two
>become one in mind, body, and soul. When you breath you can feel him, when
>you open your eyes you see him and he is not even there, when the mere
>thought of him sends chills up and down your spine, the mention of his name
>bring a glow to your face for all to see, when holding his hands is
>more intimate than the act of sex itself, when the words "I LOVE YOU" are
>not just something you say to one another, but are what you feel for one
>another in your whole being. Real love is knowing that God is the center
>of our relationship and where God is, there is a relationship that will
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Hi saviorfaire,how are you?  i'm sure God answer our prayers.... |
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The man God sent to me was not what I had expected. I always wanted I tall, light skinned man, with light brown eyes. Fortunately for me, I prayed and asked God for the person who would be right for me. He sent me Barnabas. He's short, dark, and has the most beautiful dark brown eyes I have every seen. God knows what you want and what you need; he will choose the person that is right for you.<o:p></o:p> <o:p></o:p> Always,<o:p></o:p> <o:p></o:p> Sami<o:p></o:p> |
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pepper need to know more about you .what is your age and write me |
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awww I really liked the letter.. And I know the older you get the harder it can become to wait. I know the Lord has Someone special for me.  And well worth the wait.. But Come on already..lol Jk |
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Hope you know I was only teasing.. I would just like to be with this wonderful, but not perfect man before I am 84 and blind. lol... I don't expect him to be tall or short or have green eyes or brown. Does not matter.. I Just want him to love the Lord. And he will be Perfect in my eyes no matter what he looks like. |
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