Obviously i’ve thought about this a little bit (hence the question) so here are the two i’d share:
1. Own your choices �?every day is filled with the choices you make. Don’t be afraid to make the big ones…even if you make the wrong choice at least you’ve been brave enough to make it. If it all goes to cack…don’t blame someone else, own your decisions and choices because once you’re an adult they help define who you are.
2. Get on with it �?growing up this was probably the single lesson that I’ve been most grateful for. There was no room for whinging in our house. Either fix the problem or move on from it. Don’t wallow. If you find yourself unhappy with the way things are turning out set a time limit for self pity and then get on with attempting to better the situation. Sometimes it can’t be fixed…but most of the time it can at least be improved. Don’t wait for someone else to make it right. If it’s overwhelming break it down into parts you can work on. The only person properly capable of making your life whole…is you.