my observations on 10 May 2007 in the chat room of blossom told me she is a very insecure individual with child like tendencies. She has a great deal of anger inside of her that she is holding onto. Her argumentative and pessimistic behaviour serves to push people away and try to either wear them down to the point of just giving her what she wants or to walk away from her. If the latter occurs she can blame them and not her behaviour for the separation. If she gets what she wants it only worsens the behaviour and shows her they do not truly care. It is most likely a self defense mechanism she has incorporated into her life to keep everyone at arms length and herself safe. Her comments of negativity towards herself come from low self-esteem and confidence showing she needs constant re-assurance. She more than likely does this to elicit positive feed back from others to try and make herself feel better, but instead she makes herself more angry. Her insistence on having an alternate place to speak tells me she does not trust those around her and is a secretive person. The fact that she was whispering when she has been directed not to shows that she will try to get away with being disobedient when she thinks she can. Her behaviour in general shows subservience and a lack of respect for the people around her. She shows no problem putting others in a compromising position if she feels it will suit her needs, and is willing to do whatever suits her to get the results she is looking for.
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