a chatroom is what the owner of the chatroom decides it will be..and that may be a learning place or a scening place or whatever... it is not a public house...whatever that might be....or a restuarant....
i am owned in real life and besides not being allowed to serve other men... i wouldn't do it anyway... out of respect for my Master.... i serve only one....
but even an unowned sub/slave is not required to serve you......
i think you are taking the whole thing a bit too seriously as it isn't like in a restuarant or a bar where you can get a real drink..... its a cyber drink...
respect has to be earned.. i am sure many would call you Sir if you won them over by your actions.... but a submissive or slave isn't required to call everyone Sir..
but there are exceptions.....to this...
Gorean Chatrooms...where the women are typically expected to serve others....
jamesgirl