i think that a Dom/Master should spend time getting to know you as a PERSON first....  not jump right into....do you do scat???  anal??? what are you wearing right now??? and all that other stuff.....

 

a Dom/Master should know you as a person and as a friend before he ever asks such personal questions... 

 

any Dom/Master who doesn't want to get to know you, is not worthing knowing....

 

yes, you deserve to be treated as a human being and not as a piece of meat that loves to get beaten....

 

if they start out treating you like that....i can imagine that things would only get worse......

 

yes it is important to find someone who likes the same BDSM activities as you do and has about the same morals and values as you do (so that limits are not really necessary)...but there is more to it in making a great relationship....

 

hugs,

jamesgirl