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From: MSN Nicknameapache°rose°paon  in response to Message 1Sent: 12/13/2008 9:42 PM
Dear teaz

i have taken a look in your Aimoo comm, not read everything but i took the jealousy test, and like for you it said


What does your score mean?

Most people experience a certain amount of fear that their loved one could leave them for someone else. After all, these things happen, and when they do, it is usually very painful. You, on the other hand, appear to have a complete lack of jealous feelings. (Not complete, i scored a 12)

If you were honest with yourself while taking the test, (i sure was) this means that you are extremely secure, strong, and independent.
Secure yes, strong i think so. But certainly not independent... If my loved One would leave me it would not be just very painful - it would lose secureness and strengh altogether.  
You know that if your partner ever leaves you, you will survive with your self-esteem and dignity intact. You realize that even though you might love your partner very much, s/he is not the only fish in the sea, and that you would eventually find happiness with someone else.
Héhé good one... They must be kidding me ?
 
 
i do not consider myself 100% non jealous, i cannot say i am so selfless.
In my early conversations with Maitre, He asked me if i was a jealous person, and i honestly said : not really, but i might get jealous of the time You don't spend with me. More than 6 years after it's still true, and i think this is very much fuelled by the long distance, when i visit Him it is quite different. Getting so much time with Him and so many opportunities to submit and serve makes the fear for rivality vanish.
When i am thousands of miles away i am more prompt to go to the wrong conclusions : Maitre is online and not paying attention to me : surely He is talking to someone else ! one overlooks His team playing on the TV... Him finishing that work... His ex on the phone... The green eyed monster does that.  i have got much better in dealing with those situations hopefully , well after 6 years ya know  ? i don't let myself be torn up by it, it is a willing process.

When i read your post i found it so weird that you would consider yourself 100% immune from jealousy, but the real thing is : even though such feelings can touch us, we don't let them eat at us, as SW said one might "feel" jealous... but not act on it. 
Some people don't have that ability to let go and not act on it, the ones that makes you dismayed and prompted your interest for the topic of jealousy as i understood.
 
Voilà teaz this is what i have come up with yet
Maitre has allowed for my words to be quoted
 
rose