Sorry Teddy I think you're wrong, if you look on Welcome Newbies page you will see A LOT of names , ppl who joined and have never posted, are these ones who just come into a group to snag tags or ideas? if they joined why don't they post, if they're not going to post, why join ??,
All we ask is that members take a little time to add 3 posts, we have a board where ppl can say they will be on holiday, so we know where they are, We know that ppl like yourself, who have the care of others to consider, don't have the same amount of time every day, and allow for that.
On the members board are a lot of names that haven't been seen in here for absolute ages. All we're asking for is participation from those members who can and a word from those whose time is often needed elsewhere, just as you yourself gave word that there were times you wouldn't be able to post as often, and I don't think it's too much to ask do you?
I do hope you read this in the spirit it was written, I know i only assist, but I hate it when I seem to lose touch with someone I consider a friend because they don't post, I hope you will continue to post as and when you can, and I keep you and your wife in my thoughts and prayers, X