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| | From:  tedbear60s2 (Original Message) | Sent: 8/13/2008 5:32 AM |
Your funeral arrangements my wife and i sat down and wrote down how we would like our funeral to go , not something you like to discuss with your family but you never know you could be in an accident and your family dont no your last wishes it was a bit on the sad side but with the help of computers we put something together plus we created a short movie telling our family how we felt then put it on a c/d, its not easy talking to a camera for people to view when your dead,but saying that not much you can say when your gone, whats your opinion TEDDY |
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I think that it's great that you and she did that Teddy..:) Ed and I have had our Wills done for a long time...along with our Living Will...:) I don't want our children to have to go thru what I did with my mom when she was dying. I had to tell her that we needed to make out a Will while she was staying here with us that week before she made her last trip to the hospital..:( None of my other brothers or my sister can even begin to know how I felt when I was trying to explain to her that we needed to get that done. If I hadnt gotten her to make one, none of us would have had anything that belonged to mom OR dad because the state would have come in and taken it all and yet...now 2 of my brothers nor my sister have anything to do with me...:) Their loss, huh??? I say...good for you both!!!! love n hugs, Sheila |
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by the way....my mom and dad celebrated their wedding anniversary on today's date..August 14th and I miss them as much now as I did when they first passed away...:( |
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Teddy I think that is a great idea... Sheila I know how you feel.. Yesterday August 13th was my Dad and Mom's Anniversary.. I miss my Dad so much. Hugs June |
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I think it's a lovely idea Teddy, yes difficult for you but at least your family will know what you want and how you feel, Well done both of you and I wish you both a long life and much happiness. X Mum and Dads' anniversary was July 12th would have been 77 years, Both died over 30 yrs ago, you never forget but it does get easier. |
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I guess its my hormones but I didnt make it through this post without crying....so all I can say is wills are a great idea..:) |
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I think not only wills and how you want your funeral ,but to stand infront of your web cam or video cam and let your family know how you felt and how you loved them is something they can show there kids about gran and granddad my wife and i sat in front of the cam seperatly and its hard to make the film for the family to see when your gone but i rechomend you have a goTEDDY |
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Thats wonderful Teddy...:) I have a feeling that some of my "so-called" family wouldnt want to hear what i'd have to say when i'm gone...lol j/k but....not all families are as close if you know what I mean? |
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I understand you Sheila, I 've begun to wonder how long before my side of the family runs out, seems strange the end of a family branch. You made me wonder Sheila, if parents don't make a will does the state take whatever they leave and the family get nothing ? |
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Thats pretty much how it works over here anyhow Rose..:( There has GOT to be a will stating who is in charge and how things are to be divided up. Sad thing was...the lady at the courthouse could have refused mom's will if she'd wanted to be mean because mom wasnt at the bank when it was notorized..:( mom was too sick to be able to be there so the lady accepted it. |
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