Not Your Average Grandma
B Y D A N A I U J O K I AUSTRALIAN BASED ARTIST AND GRANDMOTHER KERRY BOWDEN
recently spent a week writing her first book, Old Unfit and Unemployed, That鈥檚 Not Going to Stop Me Changing the World鈥?What鈥檚 Your Excuse? Bowden is not your average grandma. Her fans include French President Jacques Chirac, former President of Costa Rica Oscar Arias Sanchez and best-selling author Deepak Chopra. In December 2003 she was invited to be a panelist at the first Alliance for the New Humanity annual conference, a global world-change initiative organized by Sanchez and Chopra. Bowden attended alongside the likes of former Vice President of the United States Al Gore and film-maker Stephen Simon. She is now in the process of creating the world鈥檚 first Peace Embassy for Children. According to Bowden, this is all part of her work as a grandmother. In November 2000 she made a promise to her newborn granddaughter Caitlin Jean. "I really was so worried about her future because of the decisions that were being made by the world leaders," says Bowden. "I made her a promise then that I鈥檇 work for the rest of my life to make it a better world for her. And if I make it a better world for her I鈥檝e got to make it a better world for every child otherwise it won鈥檛 be a better world for her. So that was what started it, just that one promise."
Bowden gave herself a deadline to make sure she kept her promise: "I set the year for 2015. She鈥檒l be 15 and I reckon she鈥檚 going to be an adult by that stage so I should try and do it by then."
The catalyst for getting her promise out to the world came through a poem Bowden wrote in 2002. "I wrote a poem called 鈥極ne Mind One Voice鈥?and from the day I wrote that poem my path changed. I wrote the poem because of all the bombing. I thought there鈥檚 got to be a better message for the world," she says.
In September 2002 Bowden launched a website [www.onemindonevoice.org]based around the promise to Caitlin Jean and the 鈥極ne Mind One Voice鈥?poem. "Three weeks later at 5 o鈥檆lock in the morning I open my emails and up comes the French flag. I had an email from Jacques Chirac to say he agreed with the sentiments of my poem, and they were his sentiments which were very relevant when he was making the decision not to go to war."
Meanwhile halfway across the world events were unfolding that were about to change Bowden鈥檚 life overnight. Former President of Costa Rica and Nobel Prize Winner Oscar Arias Sanchez together with best-selling author and speaker Deepak Chopra had just organized an Alliance for the New Humanity meeting in Puerto Rico in August 2002 with 34 people attending. Bowden says: "Oscar and Deepak thought we鈥檝e got to get a better world and we need to get some people together to talk about it."
Betty Williams, a Nobel Peace Prize winner from Ireland, had just been to the meeting. She saw Bowden鈥檚 website and mentioned it to the Alliance Board. Bowden says: "The next day (after receiving the Chirac email) I got an email from Arsenio Rodriguez, the CEO for the Alliance. He said: 鈥榃e adore what you鈥檙e doing and we want you involved with us鈥?"
Bowden was thrilled and replied with her natural humility. "I made it very clear to them that I am this very poor little grandmother in Australia. I said don鈥檛 think I am this big organization with all these funds. They came back and said 鈥楰erry, we鈥檙e not interested in that. We鈥檙e interested in what鈥檚 inside you鈥? They asked me then to go onto the advisory board."
Staying true to her ideals has always been a large part of Bowden鈥檚 life. An artist for more than 30 years, she received an Order of Australia Medal in 1991 for her work with the Noosa Regional Gallery, and her work with indigenous people and indigenous artists in particular. "I was quite proud. But in 2002 with the Iraq war I just knew in my heart that I had to return it. It was when I went in to return it I thought I am no longer an Australian citizen. I just don鈥檛 feel like I belong, and the reason why is because I鈥檓 a global citizen. And I鈥檝e been a global citizen since 2000 when I first started with the internet. I thought that鈥檚 my country, all these people I鈥檝e met through there. We don鈥檛 have any borders."
In December 2003, Bowden was a panelist at the official launch of the Alliance for the New Humanity. There were about 600 attendees. "Most of them were founders of organizations, they were the visionaries. The vibe was so positive. I think we knew that by joining forces it would be one powerful humanity." She says the launch was a think tank for the start of something amazing. "All of these organizations have been out there for a long time. Everyone has been working busily on their own good cause for humanity, all around the world. But they鈥檝e never joined forces, not on the level now that they are starting to link up."
Bowden describes the atmosphere at the conference as electric. "There was an incredible room of people, a variety of people, all from different walks of life. The only common interest we had was a better world. The ideas weren鈥檛 just coming from one stream of thought. Humanity was throbbing."
Bowden is excited about the possibilities for the future. "I was listed as one of the founders and I knew then that I am starting something that is going to change history, and I think we all left with that. We were all very aware that this is the start of something that is possible."
Bowden鈥檚 involvement led to a specialized role heading up the children鈥檚 section of the Alliance. "In March 2003 I came up with a project called HOPE - Hands of Peace Exchange and Hands of Peace Exhibition. Children put their handprints on paper and send them across the world to other schools...I thought I need to set up the headquarters of what is going to be the children鈥檚 part of this Alliance. I thought we need to have a Peace Embassy for Children. And I wanted it to be here in Australia."
The Peace Embassy for Children project, "A place where promises to children are kept鈥? was launched in April 2004. Bowden is still looking around Northern Queensland for suitable property as a base for the first Embassy. She is also busy working to manifest her vision of a Peace Embassy bus, travelling Australia so that children can share their ideas with each other, and teach adults how easy it is to find peace.
"When I made the promise to Caitlin I had no idea of the magnitude of it," says Bowden. This doesn鈥檛 scare her one bit. "I see a great hope. It鈥檚 not going to be easy. We鈥檙e all going to have to work our butts off. But I do think that people are really in that mode that they can change the world, and we鈥檝e got to. We haven鈥檛 got a choice, we鈥檝e just got to do it."
From: PLANETLIGHTWORKER.COM