I didn't mean to pull away from you, and I didn't intend for it to seem that way, but I am sorry babe. It's just the fact that we have helped them out... 50 bucks one day, bought tickets for them to have fun on Josh'e B'day, 30 some odd bucks in food yesterday, and then another 20 today, and I'm sure since they think you have money they will ask for more throughout the week. I just don't want it to become an everyday habit until who knows when. I thought he was getting money today? I know they know how to play on your sympathy and you feel obligated to do whatever they ask of you. Yes, they have helped us some in the past, but that doesn't mean we owe them, indefinitely. I am sorry though for my reaction. It was in no way a negative thing towards you, even though I understand it felt that way. I'm sorry sweety.

 As for Shelby....you'll figure it out. Ask me what I think on something, and I'll give my opinion, but I know we don't agree on some things. You can't let yourself be intimidated by attitude, or her getting pissed because you lay down some rules. So, I will back you on what you decide. I love you sweety. I always will with all my heart and soul... your man.