whoa whoa whoa....not really...the percentage of gals who approach is extremely low compared to that of guys

 

and i didn't intend to make the fishing analogy come across as making getting girls look to be an easy task--not that i woudl know since i hate fishing and have only done it twice in my life; both were obligatory--only that you have to have a strategy, or a standard, and mine has never been to see if you can get as much as you can get with a broadsword, rather a more selective, whatever, measured approach, which is one out of shyness and reserve as much as it is pickiness

 

but, i will say girls have the butterflies about having to reject that guys don't have to worry about mostly---which means, in cases of girls doing the approaching, we do, but most guys would not reject, in my view anyway