Double Dates
Reep the benefits of friendship AND romance...
by Brettani Webb

Do you remember the days when you would go to great lengths to impress your significant other or way back to the days when make-believe was the center of your existence? If you don't, take my word for it, it was really fun. When we're all grown up and playing house isn't playing anymore, our priorities change and we forget all about being carefree and fun loving. We focus on work, finances, family, and if we find the time, a little romance.

Double dating can go a long way to bringing the healthy imagination and variety from our adolescence back into our relationship. Spending time with your friends can help bring a different kind of intimacy to your relationship. Many times it puts things into perspective knowing you're not the only couple in the world who may do certain things.

When planning your "double date," be aware that every couple has a certain way of doing things, so choose activities that still allow each couple to be independent. Each party should be able to participate as much or as much as they wish according to their personal preferences. While some activities are appropriate for all couples, some should only be attempted by already close-knit friends. For example, two couples on a camping trip that don't know each other very well could end up becoming a very uncomfortable situation. Activities like camping require too much lifestyle integration under inescapable circumstances for unfamiliar couples.

Whatever activity you choose, keep in mind that, as much fun as it can promote, double dating can also put pressure on a relationship if someone feels neglected. Make sure to stay attentive to your partner.