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| | From: BCMOMMA1 (Original Message) | Sent: 9/22/2007 7:55 PM |
Hello everyone... After what seemed like for ever...I finally found a cute suite to rent...for $1140.00 its a 3 bdrm with everything included. The kids are excited about the move. As for hubby...Im not sure what hes gonna do and I really DONT care...He wanted that internet slut more then his family so he can have her.I hope shes 300 lbs and a bitch..lol.. Im doing ok per say...you all know what a relationship ending is like...But Im not gonna drown my sorrows...lifes to short and Im sure Ill find a new man..,, We move Oct.01 so Im packing and sorting shit. Swore Id never be a pack rat but looks like I have with a few things..lol.. Ill keep ya informed whats going on. Gotta go get boxes and go the the Dollar store for more packing tape.. .see ya all later.. Enjoy the last day of summer. Terrie |
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Glad to see things are coming together move wise, I hate packing lol ... We'd come and help ya gurlie but it's kind of a far drive so we will have to help you move in spirit hee hee |
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Terrie, My sweet all will be well in life (even though at times it may not seem like it) You may even decide to get back with him who knows. Just remember that is yalls decision and no one elses. What ever transpires remember the/your higher power and know we are where we choose to be..... hang in there sister... Light and love, Pamela.... |
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Aww ty Pamela There will be no "us" back together after what he has done...NOPE... I know he hasnt slept with her yet but he mise well of....Playing with himself in our den then comes to me to make love to him!?!!?....ha !!!..never!!!! hes thinking of her not us... He isnt worth it any more..I am not going to waste any more tears or energy on him...he made the decision not me.. So I will take my kids and go on with life.... not being all religious or anything but...God has a plan and theres always a reason why things happen when they do. And some of us might not like the plans but I know it will be better in the end. I know that there is someone out there who likes what I have to give in life and a relationship. Today is packing up some more and sorting out the books from the den. Kids are going to siss later so I can be alone to get stuff done. Love my kid and all....but I can get alot more done alone. Besdie all there toys and that are packed and they think our house is too boring right now....lol..They will have a better time over there....6 cousins and that to play with...also gave her $$ for movies and munchies for them...lol.. Gotta do Canada Post mail change and grab a few more boxes... Thanks again everyone... All your words and thoughts are sure helping me get through this horrible time. Remeber Im always here for you all too. Have a good Friday. Terrie |
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Terrie, your words inspire me, truly ... I can think of countless times where I put my feelings aside to make others happy, most often at the risk of my own pride and self respect. Something I'm sure we have all done at times ...But your right about what you said concerning not letting someone stay in your life that hurts you so much .. In the end, your the one who looses when you do that. I hate to sound so cliche as I am usually an out of the box thinker but you have shown yourself and us I suppose that women do not always internalize and self loathe ... and for that I am proud of you. I have been reflecting on alot of difficult decisions that I have had to make over the past year and not that I wished this on you of course, but listening to your feelings about what your going through has put a few things in prospective for me and for that I want to say thank you ... |
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Goth... .Love ya...mmuahh. ..gonna make me cry. .lol.. Hey...anyone need kitchen stuff like baking pans and that?!!!? For some unknow reason I have 8 bread laof pans...many sizes 6 cupcake trays..many sizes also... 7 flat cookie sheets... 4 cast iron frying pans 3 Big turkey roasters And a new still in the box small crock pot( ex mother in law gift) I dont need all of these.allready have them..wish I could leave them all for you guys to grab up..lol.. Gonna drop them off at the Single Parent Centre. |
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I could use some of that stuff, you know ... it will give me even more shit to wash up LOL ... Tell ya what, you come visit us, bring those dishes and I'll get ya drunk off your ass as payment, whatcha think? |
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Glad to here the move is going well BC, minus the rain part but good spin ya put on that I must say hee hee ... ps: I don't golf so don't haul them big ole bags over here with ya ok? LOL |
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Ill tell ya where he could shove that set of clubs...lol.... Well we are half way there...house is looking empty... Can sure tell where the capets were covered by big pieces of furniture..lol....yup....gotta clen the carpets for sure now..lol.. A few neighbors popped by to say good bye,...hugs and tears...got some fresh garden veggies and a big pot of chilli given to us...aww... Gonna miss a few of them here....told them to pop by...doors always open Kids are with sis doing a lunch run...Im getting hungry and want a sub...lol.. Ill still in touch as long as I can.Keeping computer for last...it also has the better music..lol.. See you all later. Terrie. |
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now now ... LOL *ahem* There's so much to teach you BC, ya don't put the clubs up there, you use the whole frikkin bag ... |
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Well guys.....this is it....all thats left is me...am empty house and the computer for music...and alot of cleaning supplies. Im staying behind just to watch the place and the finish the last bit of cleaning and wiping down the walls. Have a single bed mattress tossed on floor so I can sleep later. Sure gonna miss this place...had to do alot of downsizing. Kids are with sis and hubby over at my place setting the beds and that up for me and also keeping an eye the place over there. I might not be around for a day or 2 till I get things set up and running for abit. So look after each other and keep my space..lol.. They said the new place has cable and net service but I will see. Thanks for letting me pour out my heart and soul at times. Love ya all lots and allways here for you to if u need to chat. Its just after midnite...gonna go do a few things then go lay down...my back hates me right now... Hopefully I can pop by before the the computer gets takin apart...lol.. Hugs and smlies. Terrie |
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Good luck getting everything set up in the new place! You have handled the situation with more maturity than I know I would. |
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First day of your new life, I imagine it's scary and exciting all at the same time! Glad you got everything done as you would have liked too .. Hope your not gone for too long, this place would not be the same without ya here BC... awaiting your return oh yeah , before I forget ... we love ya too hee hee |
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