Oh. let me tell ya about my in-laws!!! I love them, BUT... we can't see them for CHristmas. Period. I have a custody agreement that says Christopher has to see his dad either xmas eve or xmas day, and we meet in Cleveland where both our families are. My in-laws are in rural Wisconsin. We can't be in two places at once. They have done nothing but whine because we won't be there. The quilt trips are totally pissing me off.