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| | From:  volnanan (Original Message) | Sent: 10/2/2008 6:16 AM |
I'm here. Got alot of crap on my mind & just don't feel too sociable! I'm suppossed to leave next Sat. (11) for the beach, but I just don't see how! Christi has to have another 2 weeks of therepy & shes far from out of the woods. The boys have football, Tracy's still about half sick, & we just don't have the money! Theres going to be trouble with Kelly when I leave the boys with Tracy, but they're NOT going down there! Ahh, screw it, I'm going to bed & deal w this crap another day. Love you all Connie |
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Connie my life completely i understand we get all the frigging burdens and they look at us like what going where ? how can you? what about me? I want my kids in my life forever and want themt o know how much i love them but with everything that is going on i sit back and wonder is it worth all my heart aches and pain and suffer is t hat fair we give them life and they expect so much more.. All my prayers .. Joanne |
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i agree with both of you ladies, but we are woman and we are supposed to be able to handle everything that is thrown our way, ask men and kids they will tell you. my heart goes out to you both. |
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Thanks Deb i know what you mean ,. |
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Did sleep help? It all sounds very confusing to me. |
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LOL, Sorry Crystal! In a nutshell, Kelly & Tracy are 2 of my daughters, (Christi is my other DD) I have custody of Kelly's boys. I'm suppossed to go to my sisters beach house in SC next week for a just the girls week. (Mom & us) Kelly gets po'd because I'm leaving the guys w Tracy.....key words there....I have custody! Christi is still fighting the infection in her leg from the break, we still don't know if shes going to need more surgery. My dh is having trouble with his leg again, it's just a bunch of bs. connie |
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Well, too much bs will cause infections. To be honest, you have a lot on your plate and you can only do so much. You can't please everyone at once, and I've learned that one. I tell my children that life isn't fair or balanced right now, but by the end of our life time, it will all balance out. All people, even children have to learn that lesson. Also, they have to be responsible for their own happiness. You can stand on your head and spit out nickles, but it won't make everyone happy. Someone would probably complain that they aren't quarters, you know what I mean. |
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My lecture, part two. Sorry I was interrupted. I had the opportunity of a lifetime, to go to England with my Mom and my Great Aunt, free. I told my dh that he'd have to take over the house, and I went for 18 days. The youngest was an infant, and so the oldest would have been 13 (six kids). He did it willingly. Then My Aunt took me 4 more times, and each time I just went. I felt it was healthy for me to have a break, and I'll tell you, that those days are over, and I think my health would have been better if I could have more breaks like that. It's been 5 years since I've been able to take a day off. Of course, now I can't even leave the house, these days. Can barely stand for more than 5 minutes, tops. You need your girls trip. I pray that it will happen for you. |
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Wow you hit the nail on the head .. I wish i could just go i cant i have 3 clients that i must be here to watch sure a few days it would be fine. But what fun would i have worring all the time i was gone and i couldnt afford to send them for respite thats what pays my bills in due time i will get my break.. Thanks for the support.. Hugs Joanne I also have to many depending on me i also have my brothers grand children if they didnt have me they would lose everything and i just couldnt do that to them.. |
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Well, I agree I NEED the trip...but how do I relax & ENJOY the trip? I worry myself sick, are the kids ok, did they make it to practice, did Zach take his pill, and OMG, if one of them got sick, I'd panic. I do trust Tracy, but crap happens! Trip may have to be cancelled anyway, this gas situation in the south is not looking too good, we're out in town again.I did a little bit of digging on the web this morning & NC is shorter than we are.I'd really be ill getting 400 miles from home & no gas! LOL Moms saying if she doesn't feel better shes not going, if Mom don't go, I'm not, for me thats the whole purpose of going, to spend time w her. Joanne, thats how it is for me, I'm all these boys have, I'm the one they've always had to depend on. Lord knows they can't depend on their parents! Hugs, Connie |
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All i know Connie is someday i better get good returned to me and you also we deserve it.. I guess God needed some like us and he couldnt make two many hehehe glad he chose me and you .. Were now bounded at the hip lol.. If you decide to go i hope you can get some enjoyment out of it.. Hugs Joanne |
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Awe Momma, I'm sorry! Everything
will work out! Tell Kelly to bite you ass in Macy's window.. your there
caregiver and you all every right to say who they stay with.
I hope you get to go but I will miss
you... Do Bret and I have to write you another letter? LOL
Hugs
Dawn |
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