Carrie, I honestly don't remember the bulk of that conversation .. I know it was about our differences. I remember the link pretty well, and I thought at the time, "She's not getting me at all.".. And that's about all I can recall.
Your bitterness .. its so far removed from everything I know about you. Frankly, I hate it.
Don't wait for Lodi... she might not get back for days. She sometimes goes months without posting.