I simpy couldn't understand this dream, why I had it or what it possibly could be trying to tell me?

 

NOW, I think I finally have a potential answer, after mulling it over once again, and talking to Ralph about it, and he agrees .

 

It's based upon last  Sunday's events, (a few days ago).......whereupon, the following actually did happen in "real time":

 

 

.........My daughter Jen went to Washington D.C. on business for her new job. While there, she "met up" with an Aunt, who wanted to take her to dinner, and possibly get some information about us from her??  (not sure of the  why of it, except this aunt has no children of  her own, and tries to stay in touch with her neices, many of them).....so it may easily have been that and nothing more.

 

Anyway, Jen met with her & her husband, (my ages).....and she said, they had a nice time.

 

When Jen arrived home, she sent me an email, saying, "Aunt Rita wants to go to Turkey, and since I told her you & dad just went last year, she said, it would be nice to find out what places we saw so she too could visit them"

 

So, Jen asked me to email Rita.with this information.

 

I "passed it on" to Ralph, as I don't care for Rita very much, having not heard from her in many many years, and essentially being ignored by her for many more....(the hard feelings go back a ways)...She is my mother's youngest sister, and is MY age (actually 4 months younger) an Aries Sun...and my mother before she died, told me often that she thought Rita was jealous of me.

 

This made sense, then for she seldom treated me nicely, and we grew up and played together, as her mother, was my Grandmother, and we lived close to each other.  But of course, having an "older mom".....she may have felt, that my sister & I were luckier, haveing a Fun Mom (my  mom), who was  her sister.

 

Anyway, back to the dream interpretation:

 

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So, I passed this request of Rita's onto Ralph, for HIM to email her and give her the info. I truly felt "angst" over having to initiate ANY kind of conversation with her after all these years.

 

Ralph sent her & her husband a very nice email, outlining and giving them the info they "supposedly" requested along with our tour company's name, and reference.

 

She wrote back a rather "terse" and short response, suggesting she didn't need any of his input as she & her husband ALREADY booked this tour long ago, and knew exactly where they were going.

 

So Ralph was confused, as to WHY   did Rita ask Jen to get this info from us anyway??

 

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This dream I outlined (post 1) then, is the Subconscous mind's way of taking what we think we forgot about, or dismisses as solved dilemmas in the conscious waking state and giving no more thought to it,

obvsiously came out in the "Subconscious" Dream state to show me my frustration is still within myself, to be worked on, as to the lack of respect from an "old acquaintance"  who we hadn't heard from in years.....coming back now in the form of the telephone call, and me giving Ralph hell over talking to her.

I remember this week when Ralph was asking out loud, "WHY would someone do this? Say they want you to email and give them information, yet when you do, say they didn't need any??"

 

My answer to him was, "That's Rita".........a total phoney, and she simply says trite sayings, like "let's do lunch", or "You were on my call list"....instead of the truth,

 

So to Jen, to "use up the artificial time span in eating dinner together" it was just something to say, without any honesty connected to it.

 

Typical for Rita, and that's why I avoid  her like the plague.........