Ralph sees Jess, as a spirit that is now surrounded by a large light (an aura? around her)....protecting her..This aura is the love we all have for her, her sisters, her parents, her grandparents, all who loved her in life.
It is supporting her and carrying her through...this time.
She is now in the light, and will eventually come to understand moreso, and work on the part of what she couldn't do this time around, will be given another chance.
I only hope she waits awhile......before incarnating again.
Life was too hard and she was far too fragile...She was like a fine china cup, that broke easily.
I'm still waiting to see her, but my short dream after a nap, was very sad as it was only reflecting my desire to find her.
I was in a room with Ralph, and we were doing some sort of sorting material, for painting a room with (swatches of wallpaper/?)
in the next room was a woman, who apparently employed Jess, her boss I suppose?
This woman knew who we were and knew we wondered where Jessica was.
She said,"Oh - she went to meet you two, and left work early and left her nice jacket here on the chair" and I looked and saw a very expensive jacket, just left on the back of the chair, and I thought, "OMG, she left so prematurely, leaving such an expensive jacket there" but I felt she wasn't leaving to look for us, that wasn't so.
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of course, now I can understand the expensive jacket on the back of that chair (at her workplace), is symbolic of leaving this life prematurely, away from her work (the life).....
The expensive part, probably means that what she left behind,(her family), has much value.
Besides us who grieve for her, there are two children under age 5.