Thanks

There's going to be an investigation - she had a pacemaker in on friday and just dropped today so the county-doc want to check if the doc had made a mistake.

 

I'm so-so with that - part of me know she wanted to just rest and another part want to know why a woman can be just fit and happy and eating breakfast with her oldest daughter and then 3 hours later be gone.

 

It was weird to go into her appartment tonight - part of me understands she's gone - part of me expected her to walk into the livingroom in 2 sec's.

 

Tomorrow my mom and her 4 brothers and sisters have to decide where she is to be burried - some of them want her to rest with my granddad and others of them want her to rest with her own parents so that'll be interesting.

pppffff another really long day.

we drove up to her appartment around 9 and arrived around 10.30.

My aunts all arrived and so did my uncle. Then the undertaker came.

One of my cousins and I sorted out some paperwork about her finances and tried sorting a tiny bit.

 

then my mom and I drove to my brothers appartment and the 3 of us had dinner. My mom and I then drove to the airport where my dad arrived home from china. Then to my parents house and got my dad unpacked.

 

Now of to bed. For the first time in a very long time I had to take a tramadol but it's special circunstances these days.

 

Tomorrow the minister will talk to my mom and aunts about my grandmother for the uligy but I'm staying at my parents house, I have an exam paper from friday and one week onwards and I need to study a bit for it.

 

It's ok if you don't reply to all this - I just need to unload.

Mette

 

You are in my thoughts and prayers Mette.