Befriend Married Folks
June 30, 2004
I think it's important for singles to develop close friendships with married people. Many churches divide singles and marrieds into separate fellowship groups, separate Bible study groups, separate Sunday schools, etc. This is a pity, because singles and marrieds have much to offer each other. Sometimes my married friends come to me with their troubles and ask me to pray with them. They know whether it's late at night or early in the morning, I can easily make time for them. If their child is having problems, I can be an "auntie figure."

My married friends also give so much back to me by including me in various family activities, sharing meals, and praying with me. Having close married friends also helps me realize the grass isn't always greener on the other side. Even though these friends have wonderful Christian spouses and lovely children, they often sacrifice their own wishes in order to take care of these "blessings." I praise God for my married friends because they enrich my life, and often remind me that I do the same for them and their children.
Astrid

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