Sob Sob

 

I am just so fed up and hurt so bad by a friend who has stabbed me in the back. I have done nothing but be kind to her, been there for her when she needed someone to listen to her complain about how she has been treated unfairly by friends and family.

 

She starts sniffing around my hubby and starts putting the moves on him. At first I was so suspicious and she didn't want me to know that she was trying to get him into her a bed, and to make matters worse she is married.  Not even divorced yet and I am like how can you do this to me? I know my hubby is weak and has sex with her not once but many times. She doesn't realize that he will tell me everything for we have an honest and open relationship.

 

I already told my hubby I would never cheat on him with another guy and he believes me. I just couldn't believe it when he told me she came onto him and she is supposed to be a christian woman??? He gave in and had sex with her, then proceeds to tell her that he loves her yet his heart is mine and he will never leave me or divorce me.

 

I have been praying so hard that she will show her true colors to both of us and she will loose out what she has in friendship to me. My hubby has often told her no go home to your own husband leave me alone. She won't do it, and she brings over alcohol to get him drunk and herself drunk so she can do things that are not right. She doesn't feel remorse she doesnt care.

 

then just recently after saying she doesn't want to hurt me knowing that I disapproved of it and told my hubby many times and he said he will do what he wants until he tires of it. I am like ok but I don't have to go along with it and I don't want nothing to do with her. He was like I know but we have to be civil with her for now until she figures that she isn't the one he wants and that she is going to go.

 

She gave him and ultimatium that if is to be her or me and that he is supposed to divorce me to go to her. I got mad and she was accusing him of wanting to bed her the whole time and she was the one chasing after him. GRRR GRRR I told her off saying she was the one committing adultery not me and that I disapproved of it. I was seeing red when I spoke that to her for she was saying how she couldn't trust people that she gets hurt all the time. And that I would naturally take up for my hubby and of course I would I am married to him and love him and pray for him daily.  He told her in front of me many times the last few weeks that he was in love with me, he was not leaving me or divorcing me for her. She is so delusional, stupid and doesn't realize or doesnt care to that she committed a grave sin in God's eyes and broken several of the ten commandments to boot.

 

my hubby got mad at her and told her off saying you can say you will withhold sex and then want to divorce your hubby so you can have me. I am not going to be dictated to like that, and she will have to come and apologize to both of us. He bent over backwards to help her with her car that is broke down, letting her borrow money she paid it back. Yet, she was telling him to leave me for her he is like no way jose.

 

Then top it off earlier tonight around 10:30 pm she came outside to apologize as I was taking the dogs out. She says you have to apologize too and I am like not ready to forgive her because what I told her was true she committed adultery and I dont appreciate it. I don't want her as a friend if she is going to do this to me. I had to get this off my chest I don't feel so tied up and emotionally a wreck right now. You could say I saw through that apology it was so lame and she didn't see it either thinking she is going to be able to be my friend and go on as before nope things have changed and I am going to keep an eye on her. My hubby said I did the right thing telling her I don't have to apologize and she wouldn't apologize to him.

 

Its her loss she wants friends but she abuses them, and accuses them of things and says she can't trust anyone what does she think that they can do for her. They don't trust her anymore either it will take a long while before we can do that. I keep praying that I can handle this, for its been eating at me for months and I haven't been able to sleep or eat right or come in here. I should have but I was so ashamed to tell anyone, yet another friend said open up and see what others have to say. I am like ok.