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From: MSN NicknameMyCrowWaved2  (Original Message)Sent: 9/1/2003 7:09 PM
ok this last week was ruff.
 
im really hoping for a good week this week. my husband is off for 3 days and i just want to spend it with him, doing things together....i just dont know if i can share him with the alchohol....  God forgive me but i cant stand to be around him when he's drunk....it isn't that he's ever hurt me, but he talks my ears off about stupid things....his rambleing sends me into a panic attack and he doesn't understand why i go in our walk in closet for half hours at a time....or the bathroom, just any room he's not in....i love him and i feel like a low down rotten wife, who should just cater to him. im just not like that tho....im sure if eve's husband adam decided to take up drinking as a hobby, i think she would be saying "uh, dearheart" too.
 
when is it a womans place to take control over her husband and put a stop to things? i feel like im lying to him when i take out the alchohol dump most of it out and put in water instead. i know he knows i do....but nothing was ever said.


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From: MSN NicknameMRSVALIANTSent: 9/1/2003 7:40 PM
oh hon I wish I could help ya there my dh drinks too. but he has the tolerance that he doesn't get drunk when he does it. but he also drinks soda and kool aid too. sometimes he gets drunk and I let him just fall into bed gives me a chance to be by myself at the time.
 
just continue to pray for your husband and be patitent for God to do a work in him. and you may ocme in here and stress out all you want :) it helps you get it out of your system :) when you get the chance take the bible with you and read a chapter or two and prayer make it your prayer time with GOD :) its great that you love your husband and would do everything for him. its going to be hard to be wth him because of his drinking and believe me it gets tiring after awhile to see them drink and drink. but mike my hubby was honest with me about his diinking. and I am glad he did. none understand how i can stand to be around him. he works on computers and helps others on them so it kepe his mind active and helps dissolve lots of the alcohol inhis body. if that makes sense :) I am so happy that you have come in and opened up to us about this :) we are here for you :)

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From: MSN NicknameMyCrowWaved2Sent: 9/4/2003 6:35 AM
you know, i dont feel so alone in this anymore like i did before. its no only this group but with Jesus. i do feel like He's somewhere in this with me.
 
mrs. valiant do i know you from somewhere? if so would you email me?