GRRRR GRRR IDA NEEDS DISCIPLINE BADLY GRRRRR GRRRR

 

 

It seems when mike and I always goes over to his mom's house for dinner IDA has to act up and cause problems. she is 12 years old and tries to act all grown up. her mouth is going to get her in trouble one day and someone is going to be beat her to hell and back and she is going to wonder what hit her. I knew something was going to happen once mike's mom came home from the hospital and I even asked his mom how things were going to be once she was home. well I found out my answer. no one cares for IDA she is out of control and mikes mom lets her be that way.

 

she says that none of you love her, and we show her what IDA does mike's mom just brushes it off and that hurts all of us. no wonder my oldest niece doesn't want to go over her grandmothers much, and we don't either. its getting to the point we are uncomfortable there. mike has been told on more than one occasion if you don't like the way I treat the child over you then leave with lots of swear words/colorful metaphors in between. when we first moved in here she said this was here house that she could do anything I want and we looked at her like no way out you go, you have to ask permission to come over. mikes mom said she won't come over we said ok, but you know she came over.

 

on labor day IDA disrespected both her mom and grandmother and that isn't right picked a fight with her brother. hit her own nephew arthur. which is pure meanness hates her sister dot dot. sometimes we wonder if mikes mom made the right decision to bring her home out of juanita her sisters home. lots of things went on there too which can't be described. I would love to hit that child upside her head. and let her know she is going to miss both her mom and grandmom if they die.