Liloleme & Rondiepoo: I am very glad that things worked out as they did (now)...Even back then, the overwhelming feeling once I got back to the hotel (and found out that he was okay) was RELIEF. I wasn't stupid, I knew what I was doing was wrong. I never talked to the man again and never wanted to even think about it...but as I got older, I thought about his wife's cosmic revenge...and how it had to be considered poetic justice.
I do try not to judge people, affairs happen all the time for a variety of reasons. But I think that we should all try to live honorably!!! Emphasis on TRY...I can see that you both came through your experiences stronger people...but I don't blame you for feeling bitter (I would too). I tell this story, more to get a laugh...and some day, I will tell my teenage girls this story. What was the character in a 70's sitcom that used to say "God will get you for that!"? Seems to be the moral of the story, doesn't it?