The Oil and Dressing of Your Candle
You'll need oil to anoint the candle. This is called "dressing" the candle and it's a very crucial part of every candle spell: you're "addressing" it so its message is delivered accurately. Sure, you can buy perfumed candles that are already scented: please, save them for relaxing in the tub. You can even buy candles that are already dressed, but since the point is to personalize the candle exclusively to you, what good does it do to have the candle dressed by someone else? Dressing your own candle assures that you are attuning that candle to your intentions, personalizing it, enlisting it as your ally.
What kind of oil? Ah, more decisions! Many metaphysical shops and botanicals (the wonderful herb shops located in Spanish speaking neighborhoods throughout the country) sell oils suitable for candle dressing. Some are attuned (through the herbs they contain) to certain colors, some have colorful descriptive names like "Come To Me" and "Fast Luck." Select these oils based on color and/or purpose, and pick a scent you find pleasing. A small vial will suffice for starters: you can gradually collect a variety of oils for different candle occasions.
You can also make your own oils, using specific herbs, essential or perfume oils and small amounts of any mild-scented vegetable oil, such as grapeseed or almond. (See Oil Recipes)
How to apply your oil to your candle is determined by your intention:
Inviting Stroke: When your aim is to call something to you and bring it into your life, apply the oil first around the top of the candle (in a clockwise motion, looking down at the wick), the bottom (again, clockwise, with the candle upside down), and then center (that is, around the candle's "waist", clockwise as you hold the candle upright). Then rub more oil from the top in toward the candle's center and from the bottom up to the candle's center. As you do this, hold a clear mental image of drawing good things to you, pulling them in toward your own heart-center.Banishing Stroke: When your intention is to move stuff out of your life, reverse this process: apply oil in a counter-clockwise motion to top, bottom, and center, then rub out and away from the candle's center, keeping a clear picture of things departing as you do so.
For Novenas (tall candles in glass): These burn for days and many people feel safer about leaving them unattended (still in a bathtub or sink, please). Obviously you must dress them in a different manner.
To write directly on the candle, reach down with your tool and scratch the words into the wax around the wick.
Then, apply your oil around the wick and on the glass around the bottom only, working clockwise to draw to you, counter-clockwise to send away. With novena candles, petitions can be fastened directly around the glass jar itself, so the light of the candle's flame will shine through the paper as the candle burns.
While a number of books suggest always applying oil from the center out (what I consider the banishing stroke), I learned the inviting/banishing methods that I use many years ago and they've always felt right to me. Does that mean the books are wrong, I'm wrong, or that it really doesn't matter how it's done? No, it means that what ultimately makes these things "right" is one's own intention. Do what feels right for you and be consistent with your intention.
Fragrance Associations
Monday/Moon/Whites/Emotions
White Rose, White Garden Lily, or GardeniaTuesday/Mars/Reds/Aggression
Pine, Carnation, or HoneysuckleWednesday/Mercury/Yellows/Mental
Lily of the Valley, Lavender, or BayberryThursday/Jupiter/Purples/Expansion
Magnolia, Sandalwood, or Sage
Friday/Venus/Greens/Love
Primrose, Thyme, or LilacSaturday/Saturn/Blacks/Endings
Water Violets, Black Orchid, or HyacinthSunday/Sun/Oranges//Creating
Rosemary, Rue, or ClovesFragrances Ruled By The Moon
Balm
Coconut
Eucalyptus
Gardenia
Jasmine
Lily
Lotus
Myrrh
Poppy
Sandalwood
Water Lily
Wintergreen
Fragrances Ruled By MarsAll Spice
Carnation
Dragon's Blood
Ginger
High John the Conqueror
Honeysuckle
Hot Peppers
Peppermint
Pine
Snapdragon
Fragrances Ruled By MercuryAzalea
Bayberry
Clover
Fern
Lavender
Lemon Grass
Lily of the Valley
Mandrake
Mint
Hemp
Tobacco
Fragrances Ruled By JupiterAnise
Datura
Lime
Magnolia
Maple
Meadowsweet
Nutmeg
Oak
Sage
Sandalwood
Fragrances Ruled By VenusAdam and Eve
African Violet
Cherry
Lilac
Primrose
Spearmint
Strawberry
Thyme
Vanilla
Fragrances Ruled By SaturnBlack Orchid
Hyacinth
Iris
Morning Glory
Opium Poppy
Pansy
Patchouli
Peyote
Solomon's Seal
Water Violets
Fragrances Ruled By The SunCedar
Cloves
Chrysanthemum
Cinnamon
Frankincense
Juniper
Marigold
Rosemary
Rowan
Rue