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Sorry need to speak 2 the ladies regarding health prob? If any1 can help and put my life in happy mood,plz do so...  I am having a prob with loving ... (oh my god I actually told u... how rude of me,soz), but the doc says I have to have tests done.... ct scans, smear tests, scraps( ?) .... Any lady that can help me would b apprecated defo.... [email protected] if u wanna speak to me, or leave a message here, thanks xx |
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Hiya Pockets you don't actually say what the problem is if you give a bit more detail I'm sure one of us would be able to advise as I'm sure some of us here have had sexual problems .Don't forget we are all ladies here so don't be shy . |
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Hey Pockets, give us some more information and we will try to sort it all out for you. |
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Alrite I'm abit shy soz! lol... Yes its the sexual prob.... How do you have sexual things with partners if it hurts.....? any ideas would be a precatied thanks xx |
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Hiya Pockets there could be any number of reasons why it hurts . How long has this been happening for ? Is it everytime or just sometimes ? Are you relaxed or just doing it to get it over with maybe because you are tired after being with the kids all day ? ( This one I know about ) Or is it's none of the above what about your partner does he use enough foreplay or does he tend to rush it ? maybe if you answer these questions we can find a solution . |
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Does it hurt because you are dry? Or as Tara suggests, maybe your partner needs to focus on the foreplay. Or is it because you are tired and not interested? You need to tell your doctor so she could help you and suggest something to get your libido going. I still dont really know what the problem is, so please forgive me if I am all over the place. |
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Have you tried KY gel or any other lubricant ??? that certainly helps to lubricate you and makes entry easier,or maybe try another position to have sex just try experimenting and see what is the most comfortable for you. |
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My interpretation of 'it hurting' is, is it when your partner is inside you is the penis pushing against something inside that is hurting? Women can have prolapses where internal organs have been displaced and are lying against the vaginal wall making penetration/thrusting uncomfortable because something is in the wrong position. Or maybe penetration is taking place at the wrong angle and he is thrusting forward/backwards instead of following the angle of your vagina. |
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omg, Tigs. This makes my eyes water! rofl How are you making out, Pockets and are you getting some help for your condition? |
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| | From:  flick07 | Sent: 10/20/2007 4:15 PM |
I know how u feel I have the same problems!! Thing is Iv got these problems because I am just so small. I'm very little compared to my partner and its hard to relax knowing that its gonna hurt. The way I get around it is I talk to him. I know what is gonna hurt my body and I know what isnt. I do things my way or he doesnt get anything. Harsh I know but it really hurts. Try doing things that make u feel comfortable. Sometimes things hurt because they have before and the fear stops u from feeling what ur supposed to. My advice: Have a glass of wine, light some candles have some nice food, make the atmosphere relaxing. Try not to think of what might happen just go with the flow. Take ur time and just relax! Hope that helps!!! |
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Thanks for all ur help.... I have been to the doctors,and on tablets now... I have BV which is a thing that is inside us all, like Thrush, but is not an infection,just bactarial... but its not from dirt,or a std.. which is good... xx |
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This is what I found: What tablets are you on? |
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