From: <NOBR>blossom859</NOBR>  (Original Message)

Sent: 12/5/2006 9:21 PM

Does anyone out there feel the internet is the cause of much heartache. Is it just me but why is sex so abundant? I hate the crudeness of nearlyeverwhere you look it seems you can not escape it are peoples lifes so empty without it?

 Hi Blossom,

anyone out there feel the internet is the cause of much heartache. OH YES Blossom.....

I think you have just hit the nail on the head.....anyone who spends  their days and nights online must have a sad homelife...........surely they have "other" things to do at home ?

ONE reason why sex is so abundant online is that the majority of men want it and so those "ladies" who advertise it so boldly are getting their business and getting richer by the day ............there is obviously a very lucrative business going on out there !!!!  Supply and demand come to mind. Any sex business makes money....ask most MPs  lol

I agree on the life is just as good if not better without all that trashy crudeness in life, even filthy jokes are boring .....after all, what's so darned funny about sex ? It's not supposed to be FUNNY !!!

I have been online for  well over 10 years and watched many people make "online friends" and then  later on it all falls apart .....the only way to stop gettting the heartache  of that bit is to stop making friends with people who you think are god's gift when you know that all the time they are just as bad as everyone else you meet in the local pubs.

I mean put it this way.........online chat room talk goes a bit  like this>>>

Hi sis.......... wow Hi bestest bosom pal etc  ......... Julie hides behind big comfy sofa.... Jack chases Julie and throws bucket of water over her, John  wants a hug from Eliza ,cos he feels sad , Eliza gives him one and then decides to  share a  blanket with Joe AND John and so on etc .....what a bloody daft way to talk to any intelligent adult ..........would any of you talk like this in a REAL ROOM full of people ?? I think not.....if anyone did that in my home they'd be chucked out hahaaaaaaaa              

think about it next time you are in a chat room............would we talk like this to a complete strangers  or even a friend who came to see us in our own homes???  not ruddy likely !!! 

think about what happens when >>> .........1) Eliza chats online.....2) make friends ........3)arranges to meet......4) gets on great until the time comes to share that blanket with Joe and John ?........(after all she did say she would share it ).........5) big change of ALL personalities overnight..........6) THE BIG fall out !!! which incidently next day just has to involve everyone else who uses the same chat room.......how childishly boring is that ? 

any why is that WHEN there IS a NORMAL "happy atmosphere" in  chat room some miserable sod comes in and tells everyone how shitty they feel..........god... that is not the place to do that....no wonder people don' t stay there for long.  Don't people realise if you want to cry on a shoulder  BIG time they should do that do on the QT and not in public....I mean would they do this in a room full of people at home?  NOOOOOOOOO

 and then one wonders why the net gets so miserable............

A chat room 

 =

a place where one is supposed to enjoy good conversation and have fun

BUT NOT cyber sex as illustrated in the cat room scenario above and not to talk like babies nor to  depress everyone else..............that's no fun !!!!

NO OFFENCE to anyone is given .........this is just my personal view on this subject and always has been since my first days online.  I used to run a few chat rooms and when anyone started that daft childish talk they were out of it pretty quickly.(the golden hammer was V handy)   those who entered soon  learned the art of making  friends properly if you were anywhere else but in a cyber chat area...................in an intelligent adult fashion !!!

I took no prisoners  hahaaaaaaa

Ok ...............Ill  bug off now

MJ