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Should we pity the school bully? |
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Definitely, tht child has too many resons to be unhappy with his/her life. |
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Not sure about this one as I'm sure a lot of kids bully just because they can and get a kick out of it .Obviously some do it because they are unhappy so they cope by making others unhappy .I don't think enough is done to sort the problem out .I mean how many suicides have we had in this country because kids were bullied ! Schools need to find ways of dealing with it rather then ignoring it and hoping it will go away . |
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I totally agree with Yvette here - there are far to many kids committing suicide, because they're bullied and they're too scared to speak up and report the bully. Joe was bullied at school, he told me and i told the school, but they did absolutely nothing, and i found the headmistress was supporting the bully, and trying to tell me that Joe was making himself out to be a victim   |
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I definitely understand your situation Julie, and it's horrible that Joe had to go through that. All I am trying to say is that boy who did the bullying is not getting what he needs from his family. Love, discipline, guidance, nd did I mention discipline! I believe it is the parents fault that they have let this child down, therefore it makes me pity the poor boy even though he is a mean child, I believe with the right person nurturing him, he could work through those feelings. |
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Hmmm, i can understand what your saying Red, possibly the bully in question is lacking some sort of love & discipline at home, but i still dont feel sorry for him, for what he did to my Joe was heartbreaking. Thankfully, this boy is now in secondary school, and possibly he could be the victim of bullying right now, not that i'm wishing he is being bullied. But if someone was to pick on him like he did my Joe, then he'd be getting a taste of his own medicine so to speak. |
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| | | From: lilbabs | Sent: 12/3/2007 7:05 AM |
I agree with Cutie, all my 4 kids were Bullied from Primary right through to College and all the teachers from all their schools were saying that my hubby and I made our kids "Victimd" we were to blame for our kids being bullied at school,which I thought was a lot of hogwash,because it was always the same kids that bullied. So I do not feel pity for a Bully as one of my kids bullie's was told by his father it was ok to bully because he was a bully at school himself.  |
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