I know you all don't know me yet, but, I recently learned that my Grandpa has cancer in his bladder. He had surgery today and they weren't able to get it all out. He is 85 and has decided that he has had a good and happy life. He probably won't have the next surgery needed to get the rest of the cancer out. His heart and lungs are bad so he probably wouldn't make it through the next surgery...just pray that he has peace and happiness for whatever decisions he makes please?.