Guidelines that are Essential to a True Yoga Practice
The following instructions are offered as helpful hints for newcomers to yoga and as reminders to those who have practiced for awhile. These attitudes differentiate yoga from simple exercise, they contribute to the development of a healthy mind as well as a healthy body, and they help to integrate body, mind and spirit.
Listen to your body. Our bodies speak to us constantly. We don't listen often enough, and even worse, sometimes when we do listen, we ignore the message. Sometimes we follow someone else's instruction when we should be listening to and following our own inner wisdom. For example, we are bombarded with information from the media that advises us to take symptom-disguising medicine when we're sick and to go about our work anyway. Do you follow such advise or do you honor the wisdom of your body? A yogi treats the body with care and respect.
Be non-judgmental. Become an objective observer of yourself. Relieve yourself of the burden of determining if you're good enough or not. Yoga is not competitive. We live in a very competitive society. We have been conditioned to judge ourselves in terms of many "norms" and standards of health, youth, beauty and fitness. There will usually be someone who is more advanced than you and someone who is less. So what? Learn to appreciate the perfection of being just the way you are today. If we can learn not to judge ourselves, then perhaps we can do others the same favor.
Go at your own pace. Practice at your own level. Never force a muscle or joint. Never force the breath. Alertness, steadiness and comfort are essential qualities to be present when practicing poses and breathing exercises. Learn to be attentive to, and respectful of, your body's individual abilities and inabilities on a daily basis. Be patient with yourself. Everything changes.
Coordinate body, mind and breath. Relax the body, alert the mind, and deepen the breath. In many languages "breath" is synonymous with "spirit". In consciously bringing these three aspects of self into harmony, we develop the ability to make every activity of our lives a meditation. This simply requires willingness and practice.
Detach from the outcome. Let your yoga practice be an effort without a goal. Free yourself from our cultural concepts of success and failure. Success is only one point in a cycle. In yoga there is no failure, only learning. Notice change, rather than seeking results. Find joy in the process of learning and growing.
"Be here now." Stay focused in the present moment and place. Know where your energy is. Where the mind goes, the energy goes. Are you old enough to remember the first national energy crisis in the 70's - oil embargoes and politics? We were told that our country could decrease it's energy consumption by 50% simply by conservation, hence the 55 m.p.h. speed limit, recycling, etc. We can do the same for ourselves by conserving prana, chi, life force. We waste enormous amounts of energy on our internal chattering. How much time do you spend replaying past events in your head? How much time do you spend changing the transcript, as if you could live it over? How much energy do you put into rehearsing future events out of fear or worry? Start noticing these patterns of mind and save your energy!