There have been times when dh and I haven't seemed to get along and I sit and wonder if I married the right person. I guess ultimately though I sit and think about what my life would be without my dh and I have a hard time imagining life without him. That is usually my sign to just get over whatever it is we are arguing about because I don't see either of us going anywhere.
My bf had doubts getting married but not because of the person she was marrying. Her issue was what if things don't work out because she didn't want to go thru a nasty divorce like the one her parents and her sister had gone through. They are still together and they just celebrated the one year mark.
After 21 yrs of hel* with Rex's ex yep I have wished we had never married, but then I look at my grandkids and our girls now and if we hadn't I wouldn't have them, Will wouldn't have a dad and so on.
I have a good friend that said five mins before she didn't want to marry and her dad said tuff crap. They divorced in less then a yr, went their own ways and two yrs later married again and have 28 yrs in now. Weird to weird for me.
I have never doubted my decision to get married. Before we got married, probably a year or so before (so we had been together 3 years about) I went through the stage of , do I end it now or go forward. There were defenitely doubts of whether I should stay with him cause I knew that we were getting close to the marriage talk. I never doubted my love for him or his for me but there are some issues that I wasnt sure I would be strong enough to deal with. Finally though I just decided that I had to be strong enough to deal with them because I loved him too much not to.
My best friend is with a total loser and she pretty much said that about him before they got married, she had talked about moving without him and all this stuff and then suddenly about 6 months later she informed me they were getting married. She said that even though she knew that there were issues that she felt that she wasnt going to leave him. That was 4 years ago and they are still married but I dont think its a good marriage, they do nothing together and he is still a loser that never holds a job and always blames everyone else for every single problem in his life... I just hope she wakes up one day
I have, and then I imagine my life if I hadn't and I snap right back where I should be. I think everytime a marriage hits a stumbling point, you wonder.
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