What do you think you would do if you found your husband with another woman in apublic place and knew there was more going on then 'lunch'? Would you confront him/them right then and there, or would you wait and talk to or confront him later?
I don't think I could confront them mostly because I don't do confrontation well. I would like to say that if dh ever found another woman that he would be honest with me about it. That is probably looking thru rose colored glasses but I don't think it will ever get to that! Not really sure what I would do if this scenario ever came to pass though
I would have walked in and sat next to my dh and said Honey who is your friend. I in my old age don't need the bs eating at me, might as well throw the cards in the open.
Although I don't do confrontation well....I certainly would have made it known right then and there that I saw him...if only waiting til our eyes met and then walk away. That would be enough.