Rob isn't a rough kinda guy, but the guy that I lived with before Rob would get that way sometimes.  I didn't mind it, in fact, sometimes I would think it was exciting too, as long as it wasn't all the time.  As long as you have trust that they won't take it farther than you want to go, and you know that they'll stop if you ask them too, then I don't see anything wrong with it.

He got that way once, freaked me out, cause all I could think of was, "where did he get that from" and my paranoia kicked in.  Face it, I'm a basket case

When we DO do it, it's always the same.  I try to change it up a bit, but it wierds him out.  I'm doomed.  Before dh...one of the men was wild, rough and did things enexpectedly all the time.  I loved it!  I'm an animal. 

Probably so rough if I put it all on here you all would freak, lol.

I married an animal, but I like it, lol. He's literally thrown me in the bed, cut clothes off me before ..yes with knives, LOL. I've had bruises on my legs after many sessions, rope burns on wrists. We're both more rough than romantic, lol but sometimes we do things soft & slow too. It's a good variety & more exciting that way!

my dh is too romantic to be rough.  sometimes I'd like a little more gusto but he's such a gentleman (every sense of the word) that it's not going to happen.

 

*sigh*

I agree with Tish if Rex is doing something out of the norm of our 21 yr relationship I will wonder where he got the idea........we used to be a little more "out of the norm" but lately we are in our own rut of doing what we know we both like and making sure that we both totally enjoy what is going on.

from time to time - not too often!

Maybe a little rough...but not like painful or anything!  I'm not into the "ooooh, it hurts so good" thing!  LOL

 

I like it a little de-romanticized...ya know....the kind of stuff that gets you out of breath and makes you say dirty things you didn't know that you had in you....LOL!!!