Yeah mine still hasn't scheduled the big V, even tho he told me right after we had Lex he was going to. (Then we thought we only wanted one kid, lol). He's said it again after Bink & she's 2 now, I think he's chicken & well lazy too so he won't schedule.
I HATE condoms also & I can't remember to take pills for the life of me .. seriously if I ever get to where I need to take a pill once a day to live, I'll be dead in like a week & 1/2. So I never got on birth control either, what's the point if you won't remember to take it? What we use is these lil strips called VCF, I don't know if you'd have them there tho or not? It stands for vaginal contraceptive film.. yeah you have to put it in, which some people might not be able to do. It's a dissolving spermicide, we don't know it's there, it lasts 3 hours & it's all I've been using since Bink was born (aside from a couple weeks of condoms until I told him I was going to kill him if he put another one on). You could use those for awhile if you have them there to be on the safe side? LOL Unless you just think the v did work.