Most lubes we get we just get at Wal-mart or Dillons here, I also get the things I use for birth control there so I don't care, I don't embarass easily.
Sex toys my friends always have toy partys (Slumber parties & Pure Romance), I'm invited to at least 3 a yr usually & then if it's been awhile I'll book one off my friend then I get most of my stuff free or 1/2 off, lol. Yeah these are like Tupperware party's lol only having sex toys, lubes, lingerie so we have alot more fun than talking about bowls! Haha They're women only parties & you still order secretly unless you don't care who knows what you got, lol. We've also ordered from Adam & Eve.com & been in a few stores.
I can give you LOTS of ideas what to order if you want them, lol I've been to a TON of parties & I have a stock so big I could probably do showings myself, lmao. I can tell you what works & what you shouldn't waste your money on too.