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From: MSN NicknameMum-Kel  (Original Message)Sent: 6/2/2008 4:53 AM
Just wanting to check how you guys are doing?
 
After you told me you had to go on msn before, so quickly I thought oh no, hope all is okay and thought you just probly had to tend to the girls, but then when you said Jake got fired, I just couldnt believe it!!!
 
Is it to do with everything that has been happening with Stephen? Gosh I hope not, that would be just awful, especially as you thought all would be okay with Bob on his side. Were they doing lay offs? Did he get paid out for a couple weeks?
 
Sorry, I am being nosey, I just am letting you know I feel for you guys right now, and I hope he is able to find another job ASAP! You must be more than a little stressed at this news!
 
HUGS to you all!!!!
 
p.s Dont rush back or anything!! I am not being intrusive just if you wanna talk and let it out, which I know you will eventually , we're here! xo


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From: MSN NicknameMumto3FairyPrincessesSent: 6/3/2008 12:48 AM
Hey Girls,
Well yes it has to do with Steven! Grrrrrrr I so Hate him.
There is alot more to all that has gone on then we knew.
Mum didn't tell me everything cause she had promised my sister. but basically Jake was still on a 6 month probationary period from when he went permenant.
Steven hated that Jake was mates with guys who hated him so 'warned' jake and from that very moment jake didnt give stevens comments the time of day that was it jake was done for. Basically he turned everyone in the office against Jake with who knows what made up bull....!
I know Jake had spoke to Bob and Bob was really good to him and concerned and he was going to sort it out but I don't think bob got onto it fast enough and Bob was not there yesterday.
This is how gutless and/or nasty they are too...Steven for the first time in weeks asked Jake "how ya going Jake" in the morning and then Trevor said "hey Jake you have a meeting with Donna at 1pm about your probation papers" as if it was good news and he was going to be off probation" Jake even said thanks for that trevor.
Then 1pm came and Trevor met jake in Donnas office and they said there is no shift available for you in Dc anymore. Oh and there was another guy Don there and he seemed genuinly upset for Jake and said it was out of his control and since 'curios' the new food jake started there on was really up sh*t creek he really had no other positions within the company. Which is probaby true as when jake went from curios to dc they said then lucky he had his forklift licence cuase that was really the only available section. But it definalty wasnt true that there was no shift in dc cause Jake and everyone is doing overtime and they have like 10 casuals in everyday so basically that was all they had to say since j was still on probabtion. Anyway Jake said he was in a bit of shock and didnt want to lower himself by arguing 'why' etc and making a fool out of himself. They are paying him a weeks pay and the weeks holidays he had built up and they walked him straight out of the building then and there. I knew nothing till he walked in the door while talking to you Kel so was a bit of a shock.
Also lou the guy Jake is good mates with wasnt there yesterday either. Jake said Lou will hit the roof when he finds out today and well would be interesting to see if bob calls Jake even just to say he was sorry he couldnt do anything or something when he finds out today.
Ok off track and making this long again but yeah Mum said to me last night cause she was so upset for Jake that basically Ali had told mum last week Steven was going to get Jake fired/put off and its because he hates Jake now and doesnt give a toss about him but that if/when Jake gets fired it wont be his(stevens) fault cause he tried to warn jake and jake didnt listen so f... him. You dont even know how infruriated I am. Mum said to ali "dont you even care that thats your sister and your 3 neices that Jake has to provide for?" Ali said yes but its not our fault Steven tried to warn Jake. Oh oh and...get this Steven is such a liar...He said to ali that Jake had complained about the wages and that had p*ssed him right off because Steven pays his workers well and that is questioning Steven and that sani is the second highest paying company in this feild or whatever in the whole of Australia. #1 Jake NEVER complained about the wages to anyone at work!!!!!! so a complete lie! #2 Steven has NOTHING to do with the wages at all in any way shape or form. #3 the wages are SET by ECA and no one in the company can earn more than what they do. #4 Sani is so far from the highest paid in Austrailia it is like one of the lowest. #5 What crap does he seriously spin to ali.
Anyway I havnt even heard from ali. Mum said Ali called her last night and Mum said so have you heard about Jake. Ali said oh yes why did hayley call you? Mum said no actually I happen to call her to chat 2 seconds before Jake walked in the door (which she did) . Ali goes "oh well I suppose they are both really really upset?" Mum said well Alison I agree with Jake that NO ONE in the companty could lie straight in bed if they tried and in fact I think Jake is so much better off out of there. Ali was shocked and said "oh why would you say that" Mu said well with all that has gone on in the last few weeks Jake is better off out of there. Ali didnt know what to say and then changed the subject to gardening of all things. Would be nice if your sister woudl call to say sorry Jaek lost his job hey. Not sureI expect any thing less from her though. I said to Mum that she is getting more and more like Steven everyday. Also that if she calls me I am not going to know what to say. I will want to say soooo much but I may regret it I dont know. Mum thinks I shouldnt say anything but I said I am sick of Melanie(BIG sis) and steven always getting away with shit because everone is to scared to say what they really think and no one is supposed to know this or that so its all oen big chinese whispers.
 
One last thing before I go...
get this...
Steven caught ali on the phone to mum last week filing mum in on all thsi stuff and he started yelling and swearing at her and stormed out of the house calling her everyname under the sun. The nest morning she called him at work to make up with him and he said........."if you value our marriage and dont want me to kick you out then you will drive down here to my work right now (30 mins away and mind you she was at work) and apologise to my face" AND she DID!!!!!!!! This is what goes on all he time with them. He has so much control over her. Arrrghhh sooooo cranky!!!
 

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From: MSN NicknameMum-KelSent: 6/3/2008 4:39 AM
Ohh hayles, I am so sorry to read all of that.
 
This totally sux for you. I sure hope Jake ends up finding something quick and I have to agree with what your Mum said in that Jake is way better off out of there. I know I dont know him or the business or anything but from the sounds of it iykwim....
I cant believe this guy got away with this. Its shocking, and to do it to family is even lower and worse! I dont know Stephen but I am disgusted in him.
And I hate to say it but even your sister - I know she needs to be loyal to her husband but you are her family too and if she cant see how much he literally 'owns' her she is blind really. I think I feel sorry for her.
I so understand where you are coming from about you sooo wanna say something but think you might regret it, would be very hard in that situation where your husband has been done wrong by. But yes people like Stephen so seem to get away with doing dirty on people cos as you said your too scared or not even too scared more like you dont wanna lower yourself to them or even you feel like they are not worth your time and effort to bother.
Well I guess this will make family occasions difficult for you guys now. I know I couldnt go there and be all pretense saying 'oh hi Stephen how are you?' so dont blame you if you cant associate with him again.
Probation is a hard sucky thing too as it honestly does just give employers the power to say bye bye for any reason, I know from being a Mgr myself that it really is so much easier to say we dont have a job for you then anything else.
I cant believe what Stephen was saying about Jake complained about the pay to him either!! He makes it sound like he is this big executive of sani that pays people from his own pocket!
Gosh, I feel for you both dealing with this and I am keeping my fingers crossed that he gets something instantly so you can throw that in Stephen and Ali's faces.
 
Hugs for you guys, you will get through it for sure. Oh and I was telling Brett and even he said - Jake will find something easy! So we are ALL hoping for you!
 
xo

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From: MSN NicknameMumto3FairyPrincessesSent: 6/7/2008 1:42 AM
Soo is sucky. He got his last pay - $1700. That will do our budget till the 19th only allowing $200 for all food and petrol till then. Gosh I hope he gets something soon or they want him to start in sydney soon. I think it is worth a shot at sydney even if he only does it till a job comes up up here and will help us get ahead. He is actually pretty keen only thing I worry is after so many weeks the novelty might wear off when tiredness sets in. I think he is really keen to earn some good money so he can start the renos. He was looking up timber on ebay yesterday hehe and flooring etc. I would love to get started but am also happy to wait.
Money isnt everything so will just have to wait and see how it all plays out.
I would however love to throw it in Ali and Steve's faces and say he got a job but we are so not telling you where and he is earning shit loads more then sani. hehehe
 
 

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From: MSN NicknameMum-KelSent: 6/7/2008 4:58 AM
Still cant belive it happend. And yes I know what you meant about nice having him around but not under the circumstances!
I hope he can get something soon too and hope you really put Stephen and Ali's noses out! hehe
Has she spoken to you yet?

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From: MSN NicknameMumto3FairyPrincessesSent: 6/7/2008 6:20 AM
Well as i just said to you on msn I havnt heard from ali and she normally calls me everyday just for little things but i think i am definatly being avoided.
 
Mum said they got a new car yesterday (how nice for them) and drove up to port stephens to fish. I said to jake i soooooooooooooooooo pray he speeds and loses his license being double demerits and all. Lol I keep thinking of lots of nasty things to happen to him.
 

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 Message 8 of 17 in Discussion 
From: MSN NicknameHoney_Bub84Sent: 6/7/2008 7:10 AM
Oh Hayley, I have been thinking of you.
SUcks so much that he doesn't have another job to go to.
I hope something comes up and you don't have to stress about $$.
 
~Hugs~
 
And Karma will come. Just wait and see. It always does.

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From: MSN NicknameMumto3FairyPrincessesSent: 6/9/2008 12:56 PM
Well I have put a new msg on my msn. Thinking of doing a few different ones.
I asked Mum and Mum said that Ali has said NOTHING  again at all to her or dad about what happened since the day it happened.
But that last Thursday my parents popped into her work to say hi and ali said "MUM have you seen Hayley's msn msg?" Mum said "Noo why" (but she knew what it was lol) and ali told her and Mum said "well Dad and I beleive very strongly in Karma!!" Ali said OH. Then tried to make light of it and said "hehe we used to have a women at work called Karma and we used to joke and say Karma's a bitch" Mum said very non jokingly "yes Karma is a bitch Alison" and then Ali went quiet and changed the subject! hahaha
Got any good sayings or anything I can write girls? I have a few written down lol but might chang it every day if I have a few more. hehehe I'm a goose I know! lol
 
 
 

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 Message 10 of 17 in Discussion 
From: MSN NicknameHoney_Bub84Sent: 6/10/2008 1:10 AM
I think its heaps funny what you are writing.
And obviously it will make your sister think...HaHaHa...
 
Will try to think of some for you.

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From: MSN NicknameMum-KelSent: 6/10/2008 4:34 AM
well I believe in karma too. Well I hope its real anyway! Some people deserve to get a little back of what they gave altho sometimes it doesnt seem that way.
 
Well I of course just signed in to read what you had and it still says Karma is coming - remember you have to actually sign in so it will update on your friends screens?!!
 
how is the job hunting? Heard back from any yet?

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From: MSN NicknameMumto3FairyPrincessesSent: 6/11/2008 12:16 PM
My good news is....
Steven ran his new car up the back off another car.
No one was hurt!! so I can say Sucked sh*t! hehe
It may even be written off and if so it is only insured for $10,000and after trade in etc on his old car they still owe $12000 on the loan.
 
Ohhh too good!!!

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From: MSN NicknameHoney_Bub84Sent: 6/11/2008 12:42 PM
Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha!!!!
That is toooooo funny Hayley!
 
Glad to hear no one was hurt.
 
Its just too funny...
 
Wonder if your sis believes in Karma now! LoL!

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From: MSN NicknameMumto3FairyPrincessesSent: 6/11/2008 12:43 PM
I forgot to add....
That Mum called me just to tell me cause she thought i would like to know lol.
And that she found out by a txt from ali saying "thanks for everyone wishing karma steve just smashed his car" lmao
 

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From: MSN NicknameHoney_Bub84Sent: 6/11/2008 12:45 PM
LOL.
That is even funnier!
I can't stop giggling. LOL.

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From: MSN NicknameMumto3FairyPrincessesSent: 6/11/2008 12:47 PM
I know me either.
But at the same time it just throws steve in again proving he REALLY did get jake put off. stupid ar*e he is! grr but hahahahahah ner ner ner.
He was really pi**ed to about his car. lol
 

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From: MSN NicknameHoney_Bub84Sent: 6/11/2008 12:49 PM
Well serves him self right.
Hope he learns about KARMA now. LOL.

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