Thats silly. You can't see photo's of other people's - especially if you make them private.
I know sometimes you can see a pic thru the "Home" Page - where they have all the updates...
Anyway, I hope your able to sort it out. And I think if you really want to add him, then do it.
Andrew is fine about leaving Ella. He has no probs.
But I know he has more to think about that weekend anyway as he is IN the Wedding.
I'm sure it will all be fine, I just can't help but feel worried.
I'm such a worry wort. LoL.