Ohhhh I meant to rely to that post about your cousin!
Ok soooo your poor cousin?? getting punched in the face by her daughter(your second cousin?). Those sort of stories are horrible - make syou wonder wtf is going on in there head before during and after they carry on this way.
Sound similar to my sister too - she has never punched my mum or anything - but she has said sooo many times your never seeing my kids again etc then when SHE decides she is over it she pretends nothing happened and comes crying for help again. GRRRRRR
I see what you mean about B! I am glad you are feeling better about it all now.
I agree yes it is normal for him to be clingy to you for all the reasons you say and also just cause he loves you so much as you are his darling mummy! But no point (as you are not I know) setting yourself up to think it will be easy as. Perhaps it is going to be really hard work when bub first comes and B might not take sharing you very well so think it good you have had this concern come up now and maybe just prepare yourself for a possible tricky time while you all adjust - especially B.
At least newborns sleep alot at first so it kinda of helps them adjust slowly and you will just have set aside soem extra special times for him after bub is born while he/she is sleeping.
So yeah it may be tough but if you are mentally prepared I think thats a good thing.