well i have a neice who was 15 when she had her baby and she cant look after her she would rather go out and party then look after her kid and that pisses me off. yes i started having sex when i was 13 but i use protection and didnt have my first till i was 22.

i think 12/13 is FAR to young. I was pregnant with my first at 16. I found it hard and i had a lot of support but live 10 miles from my mum so only see them once/twice a week. I faced up to my responsibilities. Not all young mums dump the kids on the grandparents. I have got an A-Level in psychology,English lit, sociology and Biology and i am going to Uni to do nursing. I had my second at 19, I suffered postnatal depression with my 2nd and it was a horrible time

 

I do love my kids but i often find it hard, regardless though i wouldnt change them because without them i wouldnt be who i am today without them :)