Bad mother for letting my 8 and 10 year old boys get an earring each...I thought they were old enough to make their own deciscion when it came to this...It is there ear. My ex is trying and winning at making me feel like Ive made this horrible decision. not that he matters Im just wondering what Ive done to the boys...I felt good about the decision at the time now Im second guessing myself again....I feel so bad for what the kids are going through right now all because of my decision...