Oh my girls... what a long night this has been.....
I've been working on a discussion thread today and tonight on a managers group board, trying to make the point that members should not be contolled or limited by group managers in reference to exchanging e-mail addresses with each other.
The discussion also revolves around members of a group board... seeking someone elses e-mail so that they can write them and invite them to visit or join a group board. Some managers call that stealing members. And that is not what I wanted the discussion to center around.. but it keeps getting put in there anyway... because it happens.
My side of the discussion... for members, and against contolling managers ... is not being recieved very well...lol.
And.... also, sad to say.... I had to ban a member from here... NanaBearx2.
I won't go into details... but suffice it to say.... she really has it in for me, and does not like me at all... not one little bit.
She posted some stuff on here to me.. not very nice... and that discussion also got carried over to the same manager's help board.... where she is also a member. I found out you can't copy/paste a members message to show on other group boards. So I had to delete her message off of there. I still have it saved for my records on my personal private board.
I had it on here... was gonna keep it on here for you all to read... but said, no... not gonna leave that dirty stuff on here... and I deleted it all off.
I know it hurts you all to know I really am IMPERFECT
..lol.. .and that I'm as human as everybody else... and that I do actually make mistakes and do things wrong, and even occassionally break group board rules.
..accidentally. But you know how some managers are about those rules.... and I do respect them. Sadly, I just don't pay close enough attention to what I write in a message sometimes and I get myself in trouble.
That's why I refuse to be that kind of controlling manager here. I know from personal experience... it's easy to accidentally do something wrong on a group board. And most of what happens, like posting on the wrong board, is just not that important anyway.
So.. anyway....just wanted to let you know that I made someone mad at me.. and they were so mad they came here as a false person and attacked me verbally. Why she felt the need to become a member, I don't know... the group is open... she could come by and read all she wanted to check up on what we do and say here... which is just have fun together.
Anyway... it's over... she's banned... and she revealed herself and her anger... which can never be taken back. I know about that... I've done it too...long time ago ... and it stays with you that you hurt someone like that.
I feel sorry for her... and wish her well.
Past my bedtime.... I'll check in on you all tomorrow. My chiro appt. is not till the afternoon, so I'll be home all morning.
Thank you for being here... and I'm sorry I created a mess. I won't be accepting any membership applications for quite a while. I won't be able to trust anyone for awhile. We'll just have to have fun by ourselves.. ok? I think we can handle that...lol.
Hugs, Grace
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