I was born 1948 in Sacramento, California. I am the oldest of 5girls and grew up with an abusive step father. I was the quietest of my sisters. I was married twice before only things didnt work out because there was drinking involved and I needed to get away from that. My 2 grown sons were from my last marriage. My husband now is good to me and he understands things. Years ago I used to work in a diatery at a nursing home and became close to some of the residence there. I really had a compassion for them. After moving here 6 years ago and being away from my  family and friends I still keep close touch with them in my emails. My cats ( old kitties ) give me those purrs and cuddles I just love. I like being home mostly where its quiet. I dont like being around groups of people because I get nervous. I was always like this even when growing up as a little girl. I go to a ladies prayer meeting once a week which I look forward to. I love getting those hugs and smiles from the ladies. I love to garden growing vegetables and flowers. In the spring and summer I like to sit outside in my sitten spot and just take in the cool breeze and look at the cute little critters around here. While my husband works evenings I stay home and help care for his parents during the days. My evenings are quiet and quality time for just myself. I love to sit in my favorite chair before bedtime and have a cup of hot tea and just relax. These days I feel that I am doing things useful and it helps me just knowing the ladies at the prayer meeting. And I just know that being here with you ladies  will be special times for me. Hugs Marilyn