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Answer This : A dilema
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From: MSN NicknameLadyAltarielmara2  (Original Message)Sent: 12/6/2006 6:06 PM
Dear Abbyish Readers...
I have a friend who blurts out embarrassing things about me when we are in public or with co workers.. She also tells others of my life, things that I dont wish to share with everyone.. Yes since then I have been keeping my life a secret as to not give her ammunition however just this week at our christmas party she proceeded to tell people there that I "got laid" and I never even said that I did ...  yet she felt it necessary to tell others... some co workers and some people that I didnt know... So I ask you.. How would you deal with her??

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From: MSN Nicknamestevelicks8Sent: 12/6/2006 6:30 PM
I'm tempted to say turnabout is fair play, but I don't think it would solve anything.  I guess the best thing is just to talk to her about it and let her know you don't appreciate it.

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From: MSN NicknameLadyAltarielmara2Sent: 12/6/2006 10:48 PM
Yeah I pretty much dont tell her anything major.. I would love to do the old turn around is fair play but she doesnt really do anything to tell anyone about... lol.. oh well..

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From: MSN NicknameSLINKY628Sent: 12/6/2006 11:18 PM
Lady A,
 
I would have to sit her down and tell her that she should not talk about your life to anyone...that anything you had told her was not for public broadcasting.  Then I would never tell her anything again for it is obvious she can not be trusted.
 
Lisa
 
Ps....Maybe she likes to live through your experiences since she has no life of her own!!! LMAO!

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From: MSN NicknameCapitol46Sent: 12/7/2006 7:43 PM
Being a somewhat private person about my personal life (I am so!), it would really concern me if someone I knew would act like your friend.  For one thing, I don't think I'd consider them a friend for long. 
 
I think you should tell her that you truly don't appreciate her acting that way and that if she continues to behave like that she is giving you no choice but to make sure you never tell her anything confidential again and possibly to break off the friendship.
 
If all that fails, just make stuff up and tell people!
 
 

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From: MSN NicknameLadyAltarielmara2Sent: 12/8/2006 3:40 PM
lol.. I like caps last piece of advice.. Actually she swears up and down that me and my co worker.. or former since he isnt there anymore.. have a fling going on and she has mentioned it to others in fun...  and Lisa looo... thats what everyone says.. because its not just me she does it too.. she just likes to pass info.. lol.. I know she doesnt mean any harm but it is time for me to talk to her... you guys rock.. thanks for the input...

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From: MSN Nickname-Lady_Di-Sent: 12/9/2006 5:04 PM
I have one of those here at work Gena. She thrives on gossip & will repeat anything she is told at the most inapropriate times.
You have recieved the best advice possible. Let your feelings be known & then don't tell her a damn thing. Anyone who doesn't respect your privacy isn't a friend anyway.
Di

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From: MSN NicknamePeach_Princess_OneSent: 12/10/2006 3:30 AM
I know a few people like this... I just chose to quit telling them things... Made myself less available to them... Friends like that is something I don't need or want... If you have no choice then make sure you talk to her and leave no room for misunderstanding... People like her need direct and to the point words... Good luck with it!!!

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From: MSN NicknameLadyAltarielmara2Sent: 12/13/2006 5:20 PM
Jeeze if only my bedroom walls were not so thin then alot of this would have been avoided..   Sucks when your neighbor is also your co worker..lol.  I am going to talk to her next time we dont' have to work and I am just going to have to be direct.  Thankyou all..

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From: MSN Nicknamecheezy696Sent: 12/14/2006 5:43 AM
Your friend might have turrets if she is just blurting things out.

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From: MSN NicknameLadyAltarielmara2Sent: 1/24/2008 3:06 PM
I solved it.. I moved 3 hours away...hahahahahahaha

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