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If you could cheat and know that you wouldn't ever get caught.. would you do it once, twice or more? Now I know a lot of people will say no, but really look deep inside of you, would you? |
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I was in a sexless 20 year marriage. I had finally decided to have an affair. Me being me, I told him. I knew as honest as I am, there would be no way in heck I could ever not get caught. |
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I have also "Cheated" in My life... But I don't even consider the fact of... (Getting Away With It...!) (ie): If You do the Crime...! (Even if that Crime is a purely Moral one...!) , Then... You must expect to do the Time...! (Simple!) That... Balancing "Force" I mentioned in the Other Post...! Cheers! |
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the point of the question is to get you to look into yourself not tell the future..lol.. no one knows, but its just a question... |
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wellllllllllllllllllll.....if you're in a relationship and even consider, let alone do cheat.......don't you think there's a good chance the relationship is seriously flawed? then that brings up the question of why are you even still in it, or aren't you fixing it? |
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Um... "Slightly" Confussed here...!!! Are We talking... "Cheating" In general here...? , Or... Only Cheating on Your Partner/Spouse...? (Sold some stock at Retail Prices once , instead of the usual Trade Prices etc.) Because... Although I've Cheated in Business in the Past...! , It's My Partner that's done the actual cheating (In the flesh) So to speak...! (And... I'm still making up My mind what to do about that...!) Cheers! Then...! |
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I guess it really doesn't matter.. you can take it as you will... cheating on whatever.. I was never really specific but funny how it takes a turn to the relationship side of life.. |
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This topic brings up the question on if people as a species are meant to be only with one partner? |
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did it once, told him 5 minutes later...freakin guilt took me over instantly would never again, its horrible |
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I have and I would have to say I wouldn't again. If I wasn't in a relationship where I felt comfortable enough saying what I want I wouldn't be there....... I've been on both sides and don't want to go backwards. |
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| Another thing that I forgot to mention.. This doesn't always mean on a partner.. This could mean on your taxes... or anything else.... |
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If I knew I wouldn't get caught, HELL YEAH lol |
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Dear All, Oh heck no! Wouldn't be able to keep a straight face...not to mention if I got a STD how would I hide THAT froma NURSE??? Besides Cara gives me everything I need... -MM |
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in a relationship there are several forms of cheating one is of the heart if your heart is looking for another is that not a form of cheating then the physical one thats the most common one of all and yes I have cheated before Oh I can justify it everyway possiable like she cheated first . still two wrongs do not make oit rite . would I cheat again no the thought of the pain that it causes the other person is too great for me to do that again even if I did get away with it I will have to live with myself and thats somting I dont want to live with . to sum this up you can cheat and get away with it but the guilt will catch you every time |
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Over all I would say no... But I have cheated on a few things here and there in my lifetime... Never on a spouse or taxes though... I'm one of those people that are paranoid about getting caught and I always do get caught... It's just not worth it!!! |
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| I have toyed around with the idea in the past.. And I have done it in the past.. Now the situation is different. Even if I wouldn't be caught, or my partner would never know... I would know. If I couldn't bring it in the open with him first then it would be a lie, a betrayal and what kind of person would that make me? I remember what it feels like to be lied to, to be the last to know, to have someone have a secret that I am not part of...to know that they know inside something that I am blind to. Then when it comes back to haunt me, thats when it gets bad. So if I could do it and not get caught, no.. It is not worth the risk of hurting someone else and having to live with it.. |
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