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Answer This : How fast is TOO fast for you?
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From: MSN Nicknamemoonbaby40  (Original Message)Sent: 12/9/2007 5:42 AM
How fast is TOO fast for you?
Do you wait a couple of dates to have sex?
Do you set up a 'date' to just have sex and then move on?
When do you start expecting to share intimate moments w/o the pressure of sex?
 
Do you even think about sex for a first date?

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From: MSN NicknameCapitol46Sent: 12/10/2007 1:59 PM
If a couple is going to have sex it should happen when they are both ready to, not just because it's the first or second or third date.  If kept spontaneous there is no pressure or expectations on either side.
 
With couples meeting on the internet and getting to know each other more before having their first date, sex on the first date is more and more common lately.

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From: MSN NicknameLadyAltarielmara2Sent: 12/10/2007 4:42 PM
I think you should have it when you want it.. I don't normally give it up that early..{stop snickering..}
but I have..
{I mean it.. stop}
I will be honest, if it's all I want I will tell who I am with hey look, sex is ok with me.. but that's it.. and be done with it..
 
If I want more, {I can still hear you}  I might I might now.. yes these are very vague answers...

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From: MSN NicknameChickyPieSoRocksSent: 12/11/2007 3:37 PM
How fast is TOO fast for you? I don't think there is a too fast, if it feels right, it feels right.
Do you wait a couple of dates to have sex? Well I haven't done a lot of dating... but from the one guy I have dated I have to say nope, I give it up right away lol
Do you set up a 'date' to just have sex and then move on? I have yes
When do you start expecting to share intimate moments w/o the pressure of sex? I don't think sex has ever been a pressure for me. If I want it I want it, if I don't, tough for him, no pressure lol
 
Do you even think about sex for a first date? Ummmmmmm Yes lol

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From: MSN NicknameLadyAltarielmara2Sent: 2/5/2008 3:23 AM
One thing that I have noticed thoughout the years however and being an observer {my best friend is my model for this.}  While a woman might give it up on the first date.. or whatevere but if the guy knows that she will.. {as in my friends case} they dont' usually stick around.. I am not saying this is the norm.. but you see it a lot.. Yeah i think a woman should be able to express herself freely when it comes to sex, however there is still the old double standard...

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From: MSN NicknameGunnerâ„?Sent: 10/10/2008 7:59 PM
I have been on both sides of this fence...I dated a woman for 6 months before we slept together and I dated a woman for 6 years after we had sex 3 hours after we were introduced on a blind date...If its the right time, then its the right time...only those that are involved really know...the problem is how you feel afterwards that usually cause the problems!!

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From: MSN Nicknamemisty_pirateSent: 10/13/2008 2:53 PM
hhmm....
i say have sex whenever you want it with whomever you want it with......
my problem is that the sex usually kills it for me....the relationship that is.
i don't know...i guess my expectations are way to high....or to low...or maybe, i just get bored easily...or maybe i just haven't met the one that blows my mind:)
but i am hopeful....

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From: MSN NicknameSexSeaESent: 10/14/2008 8:00 PM
UMMMMMM IDK ABOUT THIS ONE. I HAVE FRIENDS THAT MEET GUYS AND HAVE SEX WITH THEM THAT NIGHT. AND USUALLY THEY NEVER HEAR FROM THEM AGAIN. THAT SCARES ME BC IM THE TYPE THAT JUST CANT HAVE A "ONE NIGHT STAND" BC IM WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY TO EMOTIONAL FOR THAT TYPE OF TREATMENT (LOL LOL LOL IM A SUCKER FOR LOVE I GUESS). BUT I HAVE HAD SEX WITH A PERSON AFTER 2 DATES AND ME AND HIM WERE TOGETHER FOR ABOUT 2 YRS. BUT IN THAT SITUATION I HONESTLY FELT LIKE IT COULD HAVE BEEN SOMETHING THERE. BUT JUST THE THOUGHT OF SLEEPING WITH SOMEBODY AND KNOWING ITS JUST ABOUT SEX IS TOO HARD FOR ME TO DEAL WITH (AGAIN BLAME IT ON MY EMOTIONS) LOL LOL LOL

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