You might hear this all the time... But can you ever love again when you have just got stabbed in the heart so hard???? Or is it better to have never loved than go through so much pain????
For me, the only good thing about going through all that pain is that I do my best writing when I am sad or hurt.. But like with anything.. Hurt is a feeling and being human I feel that I have to experience all feelings or at least as many as I can. It's better to feel than to not feel at all.. I didn't used to think this.. but I do now..
Definately better to have loved and lost. I often think what if I hadn't taken a chance on Pat. Yes I could have saved myself the heartache of losing him, but I would have missed out on 8 years of love so strong it got us through anything. Damn I miss him......
And I still can say better to have loved and lost. Ian hurt me, bad. And I'm still angry about it at times..... but we had a wonderful four months together and he did make me feel special and happy..... I wouldn't give it up if I could.
Even though it's painful, I would rather have loved and lost than never to have loved at all... those intense feelings of passion and love are always worth it... too bad there has to be heartache...
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