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I don't know about "enhance" per se. But it can be done in a healthy and beneficial way. It opens lines of communicatioin with a spouse that normally aren't there...... |
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All I can say it lately I am too tired to even think about it any more... maybe that will change when this baby evacuates my body... |
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Personally I don't see how seeing the person I love with someone else will enhance what I feel for them. If I love them, I don't want them with anyone else. |
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I am with Cap on this one....some things just aren't for sharing....my partner being one of them. i am not that open minded and it would only cause problems for me. |
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To me it's a trust issue. If you and your spouse are totally and completely trusting in each other, that helps. But if you are BOTH not into this type of thing, then it doesn't work. If the female has bi sexual or bi curious tendencies, then why not let her live it out. Some women like to see their husbands with other women as well. This give and take makes their bond (personally and sexually) stronger. Humans were made to procreate, it's in us. If you can live with one person and only have sex with that person, that is fine. But there is a safe and enjoyable way to share each other with others, and that is what I believe the Swinging lifestyle lets you do. gkeeper |
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And its' like the whole bi thing.. For me I want to find someone to have fun with but not have to share with my man or have to be with another female whose man has to be involved.. This didn't really come out how I wanted..lol.. I mean every time I encounter a time where I can be involved in a bi experience the guys always have to want to join...lol... I don't want that but I do want a relationship with a woman and not some kind of f buddy thing.. if that makes sense.. and I am not sure if that is even called swinging.. Yes I want to have my cake and eat it too.....
Swinging was big back in the day.. but there were also things we didn't think about then either.. Like herpes, Aids.. yadda yadda... You can protect yourself but how well? I am rambling.. so nevermind.. |
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Lady A I tried to read what you wrote, but honestly....you lost me somewhere.... do you always write down the entire thought process? |
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Lady A are you going to give it another shot. I would love to see what it is that you meant when you said what you said that wasn't quite what you meant when you said it. |
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Hey, I understood what she meant and the way she wrote it. It's kinda like one of our conversations.....stream of consciousness kinda thing  |
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Oh! Well, if it's like one of our conversations I completely understand! |
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lol... yes I do always write that way and this is why it's always a jumbled mess...
I meant.. swinging at this point in my life is not possible.. too many things in the way.. kids, pg, new kid, new relationship ... just too much to even consider it ...... yet... I do not know if it will enhance my relationship because in all honesty I haven't really done it while in a relationship... And right now, I have enough sex that I sometimes wonder if I should give him a sleeping pill just to get a nights rest...lol..
As for the bi thing.. What I meant was... every bi woman I meet wants her man to be involved.. that is not what I am looking for.. Unless he is Orlando Bloom....
This might not be any clearer..lol.. |
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I never played well in the sand box as a child...I don't like to share and I don't like to share my woman...BUT and its a BIG BUT...if it was made clear form the start that we were not exclusive then all is far game...personally, this is bad to say, if I don't know its going on and Its a casual relationship then it won't bother me...if I do know about it...I don't want it thrown up in my face meaning I don't want to ever see her with that other guy as I would never want her to see me with that other girl!! |
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