well....all of the mail that you get is from the group as a whole....you should change your email settings for the group to read on the web....
you can do that by looking to the left of your screen and click on member tools.....it is really self explanitory from there.
as far as where are all of the bbws at...well we are all over....i myself happen to be in NC... :)
anyhoo....smile it is friday!!